Hello Dear Friends . . .
I want you all to know that it has truly been a comfort to me to know that I have friends that care when I was in need of prayers and hope. I know that Amy has kept you up to date with what was happening with my mom. It has been a very difficult 24 hours for me and my family.
My mother was a very modest and unpretentious woman. She had a very hard life, growing up poor in Greece. She came to this country for a better life. She left her mother, father, and brother and sister behind, never to see them again.
When we were growing up, my father was an alcoholic, and it made it very difficult for mom to raise three children virtually on her own for many years. So if I do not indulge as much in drink (I enjoy a drink - just not to excess), you may know why. My father finally beat alcoholism when I finally became old enough to help him help himself. I was in my teens at that time.
She loved her children and grandchildren more than anything in the world. She taught us the value of education, even though she never received beyond what would amount to a grade school education. She had an unwavering faith in God, and a love and respect for all people. During the racial strife of the 1960's she taught us that the value of a person was not the color of their skin, but the value of their character. There was not one hateful bone in her body, and she would not hurt a fly.
It was hard to see her leave in such pain, but I am glad that her pain and suffering is over. She is in a better place now. I got to say all the goodbyes I would ever want to her, and I held her hand as she passed on to that better place.
Her final words were "I love you, I love everyone".
As we say in our tradition, "May her memory be eternal".
Polexene P. Halkias (Papavasiliou) 1926 -2006
Thank you for letting me share with a very special group of people.
I want you all to know that my family will still be joining you (albeit we will arrive a day later at the World), as we now more than ever need this time to reflect and heal. Some may say that is not the right thing to do, but mom would have wanted it that way, and that is all I care about.
I appreciate your prayers.
John