Good morning everyone,
Nice to hear everyone had a good weekend.
Jeff, I sure hope they can help Elizabeth this time. Tell Mina to hang in there. I can truly sympathize with her stress on mothers day.i I am going through alot myself.
Chuck nice to hear you had brunch with your mom. Sorry to hear Marks mom passed so young. my dad died young too.
Dawn, well i didnt want to depress everyones mothers day, thats why I did not say much about my weekend. But since 2 of you asked here is what my weekend was like.
Saturday was an ice cream social where my mom is at for mothers day. My brothers went, I didnt and I'm glad I didnt. As you know I cant eat, and mom gets really upset about that, she always has so I avoid food celebrations with her but I knew I was going on mothers day.
Brookstone wher she is at was wonderful. All the moms got their hair done for free that morning and all had a beautiful corsage too. My mom was aggitated because she couldnt find her wallet or money which of course she doesnt have there,although she has her purse to carry around with other items in it.
She calmed down some when it was time for ice cream and did eat hers, then it went really bad, our worst nightmare.
She started asking for them to take her home.
Well they side track her once by asking her to show Dave (brother) the outside courtyard which she gladly did.
Then back to her room where she had packed all her stuff in her pillow case and beach basket she likes to carry.(when we go to visit if we see her basket packed we leave before she sees us because that is a sign of a bad day) Of course nobody knew she had things in her room packed.
Then she started begging them to take her home, promising not to be any trouble, just bring her some food now and then etc...
She got so bad she started rocking and shaking so one brother had to go and get help. They had been trying to leave her but she wouldnt let them, when the nurse came she told them to leave which upset mom even more.
But they were glad to leave. They honestly thought she would have a heart attack.
My one brother was shaking so hard he couldnt drive home for 20 minutes. When he could safely drive he came to moms house where I was. My oldest DD came to visit me for mothers day, because she was busy on sunday.
He told me what happened and he didnt think he could go back on Sunday with me. He said she seemed so clear he was afraid she would remember that he wouldnt take her home the day before. That was the first time I saw my brother cry. So after 30 minutes I called to check on her and she was calmed down and in the dining room waiting for dinner to be served and even had her nails done.
So then my brother relaxed and said he could sleep that night.
Sunday he decided to go with me but was pretty upset so I just told him to wait in the outer lobby and I would go through the door carefully to see if her bags were packed again and hope she didnt see me. There were lots of extra guests there and even a dog who comes to visit now and then Just inside the door so it was easy to sneak in and peak around.
I didnt see her so I thought maybe she was in her room. I wasnt going to open the door because once I did that she would see me and if she was still in a bad way I would have to go in anyway.
So I found an aide and she said mom was in the sun room and she hadnt seen her bags packed today. I had looked in the sunroom and not seen her but she was off in a back corner and i peeked in and saw she had her stuff all packed and she was just sitting there waiting for someone to come and take he out of there.
So i quietly turned around before she saw me and left as fast as I could. I went out and told my brother she was still in a bad frame of mind and we left.
He was so grateful I went in and found out instead fo getting caught up in that emotional turmoil again.
Plus friday the advocare for getting mom on medicad insisted Dan get all the final burial arrangments done with pricing so he could submit that with all her info, so Dan had just spend all day friday taking care of her final arrangements which was actually stressful for all of us because we all worked together on this. So that was not a good way to set your mind set for mothers day weekend.
So I never got to even speak to my mom on mothers day.
She has no concept of time so hopefully next weekend she will be better and I can give her her card and gift then. But it was a very hard weekend for me.
On a lighter note I did see my daughter Marie and Rachel and Randy called me, Plus I saw Peter friday night. So for my own family it was a nice mothers day but I really wasnt in the mood for it this year.
Now that your all depressed

I can say we have some nice sunshine

this morning although rain is coming. The dogs had a minor fight on moms back porch where i was painting the hand rails and both of then have white paint on their ears and one whisker each

They looked redicilous!!! With Minnie being black it really shows up on her.
Heres a big tip for buying stocks: But Excedrin stocks I have been using enough the last few weeks that they have to be doing great
well I have 38 e-mails to go through. Have a great Monday everyone,
Kathy