Disclaimer: I have not read this whole thread.
After 8 months of dealing with tons of newbie guests, here are my tips:
1. Yes, you can get dining reservations day of, unless you snagged a great free dining deal. I had a night where even Biegarten was booked solid. Any other time (excepting x-mas, new years, and other major holidays) you can book some of the less popular places at non popular hours day of.
2. On the note of dining, just because you have a reservation there doesn't mean there is a bus from your resort there. I can't even tell you how many folks stand patiently at the bus stops at the resorts, waiting for a bus to the Boardwalk or Ft. Wilderness for dinner.
3. IT'S YOUR CHILD'S TRIP TOO. This I can not stress enough. Just because you want to do everything doesn't mean your little one does. Don't drag little Timmy on ToT just because you've always wanted to go.
4. Don't let your child's meltdown become yours.
5. No, you can not walk to {insert park here} from {insert hotel here} just because there is a road. You walk along those roads, you take your life into your own hands.
6. Always ask CMs questions! They'll always give you a good answer and if it's a silly question I promise you just made their day a little more amusing. My personal favorite was the lady who looked at the picture of the stage for Cirque in Downtown Disney and asked very politely if it was all on ice or if there were acrobatics too.
7. Requests are requests. Don't yell or scream if they can't be met.
8. Never yell at a CM unless they are putting somebody's personal health and safety in danger.
8. Naps are the best thing in the world. Take an afternoon break. For an example of what happens if you don't, hang around MK between 2 and 4. You get a front row seat for the meltdowns.
9. No, you can't buy Uni, Sea World, or any other non-Disney park ticket at an onsite hotel. However, CMs will cheerfully give you tips on visiting those parks and will put you in touch with the best way to get there and have fun!
10. You will walk. A lot. Plan accordingly.
11. Don't overplan. Things happen, both magical and not, that can take a firm plan and rip it to shreds. Plan your meals, your FPs, and your nap times. Know generally which rides you plan to hit and when. You can go in with a plan, but be open to having it totally destroyed.
12. The Barber Shop on Main Street will do your little prince and princesses' hair up for $10. I think BBB is going at $50 these days.
13. Smile! Disney is truly magical, so always try and find a reason to smile while there! It makes the whole trip that much better
