Tulirose said:
Jim - You don't post often, but when you do......
You mean he's not?? (I've shoulda known especially when I read either here or on other thread SueEllen's response to him and she IS a moderator --ummm - I
think it was SueEllen--!)
I'll post this once, and then let it be since apparently it was totally misconstrued, after that you can say whatever you please about me, acuse me of doing whatever, and frankly I could care less.
First, I *WAS* one of the people that both pulled the person out of the water, and *WAS* one of the people that spent 30 minutes on the beach doing everything we could in order to save a life.
Second, I was thanked personally by the family still on board, for what I posted asking that speculation stop and we wait for their announcement. If you choose to disrepect that, then frankly I could care less about your opinion of me.
Finally, The post that was posted here, had no facts other then a disboarder had passed away and speculated at possible causes.. I did not want to discourage anyone from PM'ing friends and family members to make sure they were ok. If you felt that was what I meant, then you read way to much into it. What I posted was a direct statement asking that you do not post seeking information on what happened, and did not PM other cruisers to see if they had information as to what happened. It merely expressed what I had already heard from the family and friends on board, as well as the opinions of the other disboard members who were VERY directly impacted by the situation. The original post without any information did nothing except A) Peak the natural human curiousity about the situation (Which as we stated earlier, is difficult to contain, but we must out of respect for the family) and B) cause anyone reading the post to panic that it might have been their loved one that was lost.
That said, I stand by my original post, that until the family comes forth with a statement, the only thing we should be discussing should be our condolences to the family, or not discussing the subject at all. I am not a disboard moderator, and I don't pretend to be one. But I am compassionate, I am an EMT, I've witnessed more deaths first hand then all but a few people on this board, and most of all, I know how I'd want others to react if I was in the same situation. 95% of the people on these boards have been nothing but respectful of the situation and have contained thier curiousity. If you all feel like crucifying me for the actions, I'll show up at Port Canaveral on your departure day and you can hurl all the stones you want. I know I did what was right, and what the family felt was right.
Those of you who still question my actions, ask if it was your mother or your father. Ask if you would want to find out through some internet chat board, in a situation where communication with your family is not quick, or easy and realize that at the time the initial announcement was made, the family that had left the ship was still on one of the out islands of the bahamas.
Anyway, I'm done with this subject, I've put this thread on ignore and could care less what anyones opinions of me are going forward. When its my turn, I'll know I have a clean conscience and hopefully no one will spread fear, uncertanty or doubt to other families when I do go.