Fingers Crossed for the Mom's Panel - I'd vote for you simply because of your going through the years with both a boy and a girl - up to an including teen years.
Heartful prayers for your family and I'd like to applaud your family for encouraging people to be caring and not to spread rumors on FB. My in-laws went through a very emotional issue this summer (still are) and my heart breaks when I see some of the things insinuated, more for the insinuators rather than the target because it shows that they were so hurt they are lashing out.
Anyway, here's to happier thoughts of the Happiest Place On Earth!