We were on 1/16 Wonder and we were quite disappointed also. It was our first cruise so I have nothing to compare but the kids programs did not meet my or my children's expectations. I'm not sure it has anything to do with whether they are in daycare or not, since mine are - they still didn't want to go. They said it was 'just school mom'. When I was registering, there were kids climbing on the slide and the CM helping me stood up and yelled for them to get off. While this is not illegal or anything, it just wasn't the 'magical' experience I thought I had paid for.
The weather was horrible and the ride was rough - while I can't fault
DCL for this - I wonder why they can't use the stabilizers on the way to Nassau? I can't prove it but I honestly doubt they were being used. And if they were and it is still that rough, then they need to find another route for that first night cuz I have heard a lot of complaints about the first night to Nassau....
The food - well if you like instant mashed potatoes and overcooked meat, then it's a winner. We eat that at home everytime I have to cook

, so no treat for us.
Guest Services dropped the ball on my Disney Visa credit, it's since been rectified but it wasn't because of anyone employed on the ship.... I think the service is extremely variable depending on the server you get, ours was adequate. But the first night when people were dropping out of the dining room because of the motion of the ship, I saw plenty of servers delivering trays to staterooms. When my DH and DD left, I hauled up some cold dinners along with a queasy DS to the stateroom. I was actually told by my server to just order room service.. well, can we get a steak through room service? No, but all the mac n cheese I can eat! OH BOY!!!! Guess we weren't special...
I guess my expecations were just that, too high, but for 6K - they were not met. Well I guess we'll just go back to Durango and live like kings for 2K - I guess it's all relative...... I don't mean to be whiny, I am just very disappointed and to top it all off, I am just now healthy again from getting sick on the ship, so it really didn't feel like a vacation at all and I so hoped it would be the vacation of a lifetime for everyone! WAH!!!