~ °O° ~ Any Single Disney Men Out There?? ~ °O° ~ Part 3

[Sha]

Those few that were in chat months back and know what this news means to me... on a professional level... remember the woman that works for me that was spreading rumors that I was having an affair with someone's husband?

She also pulled something on Monday that was the final straw for me and I had put her on my "list" of names that will need to be reviewed IF I have to make staff reductions... well... she FOUND A NEW JOB and QUIT today!

I'm home, sick with bronchitis but suddenly... I feel AWESOME!! I love that I don't have to fire someone... they did it on their own!

That is great Kimmie! I know from talking with you on the phone you were really frustrated with that.

 

[katydidbug1]

Yes you are right! He is everything I could ever ask for and more. Can't wait to be with him for the weekend!!

He said he wants to meet you too so we need to work out a trip either WDW or Boston.

I'm all for that...we will figure something out

 

[Emtgirljen]

Yes you are right! He is everything I could ever ask for and more. Can't wait to be with him for the weekend!!

He said he wants to meet you too so we need to work out a trip either WDW or Boston.

Congrats to you, Tink1. You guys look so cute together, I'm glad you found someone who makes you happy.

 

[Sha]

There are a few of us still here from the beginning... I was in and out but started on page 2 or so... but many have met their Prince or Princess and pop in every now and then... or for others... such as me... I'm no longer looking and have only used this to keep in touch with some wonderful friends that I've met.

The initial intent was exactly as the thread title implies... Disney loving singles looking for other Disney loving singles. Today's value of the thread goes further than that. Friendships have been made - some have agreed to "stop talking" and not be "friendly" due to issues that happened - then it's produced engagements and even weddings. So... it is different today. Much more fast paced for sure!

Edited to add: The "can't we all just get along" mantra is great, in theory. However, in reality there is history and stories (2 sides to each, of course), etc. The key is just treating people with respect, no matter how you feel about them. Not everyone has to be "friends". We just all have to be adults. Does that make sense?

Believe me, I pray every day that old wounds heal. For some, it's easier to forgive... for others, people are not allowed to make mistakes and are not willing to forgive. Then... there are those that say exactly what's on their mind. We can't control any of it! It's one of the reasons I've been on here and in chat less and less. Perhaps someday...

Well said as always Kimmie! Like Bren said there are great friendships that we value. Forgiveness is a powerful thing but even more is to not shut the door on a friendship and keep it open. That way there is no regrets for me and to quote someone else, then maybe that friend will be "proud" to know me and have me as their friend. The one thing that gets me most of all is when someone puts words in my mouth saying I said this or that, because that is what THEY wanted to hear, and isnt what was said in the slightest.

I'll be around. . .though I am meeting my friend for late afternoon lunch (which usually includes cocktails) So not sure how coherent I will be. . .but you know how to get a hold of me. . .

Yes I do

 

[Tink901]

Congrats to you, Tink1. You guys look so cute together, I'm glad you found someone who makes you happy.

Thanks Jen!!! He is Awesome!!

Hope all is well with you!!

 

[acm563]

...and please accept what I am going to say with an OPEN heart and mind....

HOW can any of you find your prince or your princess if you do not accept new people into the circle. Lets face it, yes there are more gals on here than guys but if you havent made a connection with that guy is it so awful to allow a newbie to come in that might be his princess. I love my guy pals as much as my gal pals and I want EACH of us to find our mirror image...(with that being said, maybe I need to clean the glass ...heheh...just jk babe) There were a few that made me feel very welcome when I came on board and there were a few that did the exact opposite. It may not have been something the guys noticed, but we women can do and say things that only another woman will get as being snippy or snide and then we as women can act innocent when it comes back....We are all human we do it...we are females.... but we need to be more accepting as well as being helpful to others who come on board. We as women are so quick to pull the new guys in but when a gal comes around we put the fence up and lock her out and that is not right. Instead of being jealous when a guy and a gal seem to connect and trying to snuff out the flame of romance lets flame it like I said before. I am telling you negative vibes bring back negative energy and positive vibes positive. Play nice and guess what maybe that is excatly the thing that will catch your prince charmings eye....

 

[libertybell7]

Well said...

 

[Tink901]

Congrats to you, Tink1. You guys look so cute together, I'm glad you found someone who makes you happy.

Thanks Jen!!! He is Awesome!!

Hope all is well with you!!

 

[CinRell]

Amen sistah. I agree with all that you just said. Only you said it much better than I ever could've.....

and I"m a journalist. bwahaha.

You rock, girl.

 

[nurse.darcy]

Well said Angy, though I will say that, as a newbie on this thread and chat, I have felt pretty much welcome. . .

Of course, the flip side of that is I can be quite out there when I want to get to know people. . ya know, taking matters into my own hands. . .

 

[acm563]

Well said Angy, though I will say that, as a newbie on this thread and chat, I have felt pretty much welcome. . .

Of course, the flip side of that is I can be quite out there when I want to get to know people. . ya know, taking matters into my own hands. . .

hehehh well we know ya can talk a lot darcy.... heheeheh

 

[acm563]

Amen sistah. I agree with all that you just said. Only you said it much better than I ever could've.....

and I"m a journalist. bwahaha.

You rock, girl.

and (((HUGS))) Ms Cindy Cindy...the Angy kind
and.... to all

 

[Kimmielee]

...and please accept what I am going to say with an OPEN heart and mind....

HOW can any of you find your prince or your princess if you do not accept new people into the circle. Lets face it, yes there are more gals on here than guys but if you havent made a connection with that guy is it so awful to allow a newbie to come in that might be his princess. I love my guy pals as much as my gal pals and I want EACH of us to find our mirror image...(with that being said, maybe I need to clean the glass ...heheh...just jk babe) There were a few that made me feel very welcome when I came on board and there were a few that did the exact opposite. It may not have been something the guys noticed, but we women can do and say things that only another woman will get as being snippy or snide and then we as women can act innocent when it comes back....We are all human we do it...we are females.... but we need to be more accepting as well as being helpful to others who come on board. We as women are so quick to pull the new guys in but when a gal comes around we put the fence up and lock her out and that is not right. Instead of being jealous when a guy and a gal seem to connect and trying to snuff out the flame of romance lets flame it like I said before. I am telling you negative vibes bring back negative energy and positive vibes positive. Play nice and guess what maybe that is excatly the thing that will catch your prince charmings eye....

Keeping an open heart and mind and speaking for MY CIRCUMSTANCES ONLY... When the thread started moving at such a fast pace... I for one, rarely had the opportunity or time to read or post from work... it was too hard to keep up. I have rarely posted, except for days that I've been at home!

If someone took that as a snub or not welcoming them with open arms, I'm very sorry. With life challenges that I have right now, I simply didn't have time. Others clearly manage their time better than I and have jobs that allow them to read and post multiple times during the day.

It's the fast paced pages moving so quickly, available time and some old wounds that have kept me from jumping in with both feet again.

Again... I don't view this thread as a way to find my Prince Charming. I've said that for quite a long time. My use of this thread was to share fun Disney stuff, vent every now and then about work and keep in touch with the friends that I have made along the way. Perhaps I've misunderstood that it was ok to NOT be looking and still post here? It would seem as though perhaps I'm now in the wrong place?

There are several newbies... both male and female, that I can honestly say I've never posted anything to nor have I been in chat with... it was not intended as a snub. I simply haven't been around, which... seems to be what works best for me.

The good thing is... the friends that I have made and the new ones I had hoped to meet in May can communicate outside of this thread. I'll post again if I find I'm ready to begin looking for Prince Charming.

 

[CinRell]

Kimmielee I don't think that's what angy meant at all....

I used to post here often... then stopped.. now I'm here to meet new FRIENDS... sure I flirt but was very open that I"m with someone and not here for romance. My friends here know I play and flirt and whatever.

HOWEVER since I came back, some posters have posted nothing but rude or snippy responses to most anything I say... and not things I'm directing toward them

I've heard from others I kept in touch with over the past what.. 2 years... since this thread started and they've voiced similar feelings.

Not sure what I did wrong to get constant snippy responses but... whatever. I can deal with it.

What I DON"T like is when I see OTHERS I know did nothing wrong get snipped at.. hurtfully.

It's uncalled for and, as angy also touched on, unattractive.


Can't we all just get along? lol!

 

[acm563]

Keeping an open heart and mind and speaking for MY CIRCUMSTANCES ONLY... When the thread started moving at such a fast pace... I for one, rarely had the opportunity or time to read or post from work... it was too hard to keep up. I have rarely posted, except for days that I've been at home!

If someone took that as a snub or not welcoming them with open arms, I'm very sorry. With life challenges that I have right now, I simply didn't have time. Others clearly manage their time better than I and have jobs that allow them to read and post multiple times during the day.

It's the fast paced pages moving so quickly, available time and some old wounds that have kept me from jumping in with both feet again.

Again... I don't view this thread as a way to find my Prince Charming. I've said that for quite a long time. My use of this thread was to share fun Disney stuff, vent every now and then about work and keep in touch with the friends that I have made along the way. Perhaps I've misunderstood that it was ok to NOT be looking and still post here? It would seem as though perhaps I'm now in the wrong place?

There are several newbies... both male and female, that I can honestly say I've never posted anything to nor have I been in chat with... it was not intended as a snub. I simply haven't been around, which... seems to be what works best for me.

The good thing is... the friends that I have made and the new ones I had hoped to meet in May can communicate outside of this thread. I'll post again if I find I'm ready to begin looking for Prince Charming.

Kimmee..I for one had seen your past posts and loved your attitude and I too did not come in here looking for Prince Charming. I came in here as someone who LOVES DW and everything disney, I didnt see this as a matchmaking site....and didnt need a matchmaking site.... I would hope that we are all here just to have fun

 

[nurse.darcy]

hehehh well we know ya can talk a lot darcy.... heheeheh

Who Me? Talk? Naw, I don't talk much. . .lol

 

[nurse.darcy]

Not to change the subject but since we are all girls here talking this morning. . .(morning for us west coasters anyway). . .

Have you ever taken a pair of jeans fresh out of the dryer and attempted to 1. Put them on and 2. Button and Zip them up?

OUCH. . .rivets, zippers and buttons get hot in the dryer. . .lol

<<<I'm with stupid<<<

 

[acm563]

Hello all...I am Angy (aka passionate for life on myspace) I am a not so recovering WDW junkie...I love my addiction and I am not in denial nor do I want to ever recover. I am hoping that the wonderful group of people I see on this board will support me in my search for more and more continual fixes.
I have a sweet guy that posts on here that asked me to join in so I hope that you will accept my heartfelt hello and I am not on here looking for my prince..( I may have found him)
I am 44 years old, soon to be 45...I am neither ugly nor gorgeous, skinny or fat...in fact I am just kind of your average Jane . I live in the wonderful state of VA. I have been divorced for 5 years, I have a lot of baggage and insecurites I deal with. I am an RN but I do not practise as such because in 1997 I had back surgery which left me in a wheel chair for 3 years. I am fine now except for one of the results of all of these dr visits was to find out I have MS. It is remitting kind and I am fine most days but type dyslexic, and sometimes randomly. I have one fantastic son who is my miracle child and he will be 26 in September. I currently work as a Regional Operations Manager traveling all over the Eastern Coast.
So that is me, please accept me for who I am and lets share some Disney Magic

 

[acm563]

Not to change the subject but since we are all girls here talking this morning. . .(morning for us west coasters anyway). . .

Have you ever taken a pair of jeans fresh out of the dryer and attempted to 1. Put them on and 2. Button and Zip them up?

OUCH. . .rivets, zippers and buttons get hot in the dryer. . .lol

<<<I'm with stupid<<<

lolrof..yes as a matter of fact I have and my tummy is none the nicer for it

 

[nurse.darcy]

lolrof..yes as a matter of fact I have and my tummy is none the nicer for it

Sorry, I am in a SILLY mood and it was just getting too heavy in here for me. . .had to get back to lightening it up. . .and owe, yes, I have red marks on my tummy from the rivets. . .(note to self, when putting your jeans on fresh out of the dryer, wear granny panties and not a thong. . .lol)