Gina-Gina-Bo-Bina
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Ditto here!
So, as a QOTD, have you/would you plan a Disney trip without your kids? If so, did you/would you feel guilty? And, do your kids know where you are going?
Personally, I wouldn't. Jake loves to travel, and its our privilege to have him along on our vacations. We love spending time together and sharing new experiences with each other, and we have a blast doing so. There is absolutely no reason for us not to take him with us.....DH and I will have plenty of time to travel as a couple once he's on his own

On a purely practical side, he would have no one to stay with when we were gone, so it wouldn't be a possibility anyway. While my mom would love his company (and he would love hers), she doesn't drive and lives in a different city which would be problematic with his school, work and sports commitments. DH's parents have little to nothing to do with our family on a regular basis, and it would be punishment to allocate him to their care during our absence (DH has a brother 2 years younger than Jake who is a NIGHTMARE....no way I would force Jake to endure his antics while we have the time of our lives on vacation). And having him stay alone? Not a chance


When he's older, I hope Jake will continue to try and join us when we embark on our next adventure. I would love to have him and his significant other (and even his kids) along for the fun. The memories made and shared with others tend to be the ones we cherish the most. As long as DH & I have our own separate bedroom to retreat to at the end of the day, its all good
