I couldn't help but smile at you! I'm going to bank on the TN trip, also! If you guys have that much faith and if I keep on keeping on with it, then "HE" just may come through for me! I hope so.

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I had a miscarriage before I got pregnant with Lacey. The doctor told me I had to wait three months before trying again. We went to see my sister who lived in Colorado at the time and I got pregnant while there. Now, whenever anybody in the family mentions Colorado, my sister always has to chime in "John and Lisa had a great time there!".
Hey, Lisa: how have those ghosts been behaving lately? I've been meaning to ask, but I keep forgetting.
And I was going to say, I need an attitude adjustment this morning. Rudeness is one of my biggest pet peeves in the world! I sit an office that has a half door at the end of a really long hallway. I'm not a receptionist and I am not "information", however I get interrupted 500 times a day by people who a) want to borrow change for the vending machine

b) need to borrow a pen, paperclip, piece of paper, etc.

c) need to use the telephone d) need directions.
I help however I can, but what irritates me more than anything is those who turn around and walk off w/out so much as "thank you". So, today that happened, and I sweetly said, "you're welcome!" just like I thought I heard them say it.

I'm such a devil. She turned around and then told me thank you, but I hope she remembers that is the least she can do when someone goes out of their way to help her.
Ahhh. I feel better now!

Thanks!
I talk to John every day at lunch and he always asks about the ghost(s) too. His brother who worked with John to fix some stuff around the office is scared to death that the ghosts are going to do something to me.
No more books have been taken from the shelf. But, like I said before, I don't think it's going to because the fussing attorneys have now settled their dispute.
The ghosts still are playing their little tricks here and there.....doors opening and no bells ringing, doors being locked, my boss's green pens are constantly coming up missing, I still smell cigarette smoke, etc. On the long drive to Lacey's house, John, Mama and I talked about the ghosts. We are convinced that they aren't bad ghosts or they'd have done something to me personally. I figure they're just wanting to play around with our minds.
Do not worry, whatsoever, about venting. I totally understand. I hate rude people and the line of business I am in has a whole heck of a lot of them.
Just imagine how "pleasant", and I use that term loosely, people are when they come in to talk about divorce, or their ex didn't pay his/her child support, or how are we going to split the holidays up, etc. etc. etc.
I once had a guy call ranting and raving about his baby's mama and how if she didn't quit calling him, he was going to just shoot her. I calmly said...."I hope you don't because we don't do criminal defense work." and promptly hung up on him. He called back and apologized.
The other day, I had a guy get a bad attitude with me and I told him, point blank, "I don't know if you have a problem with me or a problem with women in general but you need to know that if you are rude to me again, I will go into my boss's office and tell him so. After that, whenever I see your name come up on caller i.d., I won't answer it. So, you can either adjust your attitude or I'll quit answering your calls." He was always very polite to me from that point on.
I usually do like you did today....I
MAKE them say something nice. But, you can only do that for so long before you have to tell them like it is. I am very thankful that my new boss doesn't take crap from anybody. He has a great reputation for what he does and says that if they are rude to him or to me, we don't need them.
Now that's the end of my vent.