From all my research as a family of 5 we will have to use a 2 bedroom unlike DVC and that will really eat up all our points in a hurry thus not really making even a free timeshare any deal for us with the maintence fees. With kids in school we are not super flexible on travel dates. We go to Disney for 10 days and the beach a few times a year so 154,000 won't begin to be enough. Even looking on ebay for more points with the fees not sure it is the best deal. Looks like way to much hassle and not enough flexiblility. If I'm wrong and someone can show me differently please do. Thanks for all the help.
Like most comparisons, the devil is in the details. Comparing DVC to Wyndham is not apples to apples. It's more like apples to zebras.
For example, you say you go to Disney for 10 days. To do that with DVC in any DVC one bedroom, you're going to need a substantial number of points. During the summer, in an OKW 1 BR (the lowest priced DVC), you're going to need 300 DVC points (282 for 9 nights, 312 for 10) And that's assuming only one Fri-Sat weekend; if you stay two weekends, the cost goes up considerably. My OKW costs per point (acquisition cost buying resale for cash + annual dues) are $7 per point. So that works out to $1,974 to $2,184, depending on whether you stay 9 or 10 nights.
My cost (acquisition + MFs) for my Wyndham points is $4.48 per thousand, and a TWO bedroom at Bonnet Creek during the summer school break is 305K points for 10 nights -- or $1,366. Note that's a TWO bedroom.
You say you can't do much with 154K Wyndham points, and you're right. 154K Wyndham points is roughly comparable to about 50-75 DVC points. You can't do much with either.
My personal opinion (owning both) is that DVC is a great timeshare for stays in DVC resorts at WDW. When you get outside WDW, there are better, less expensive options anywhere else DVC has a resort. When you try to use DVC for non-DVC options, it's just not a good value.
For vacations away from the WDW area, one simple number tells the story. DVC has a total of 11 resorts (7 at WDW); Wyndham currently has 84...and growing. Wyndham has the same number of resorts in Hawaii as DVC has in their entire system.
On the DVC boards, one thing I tell prospective buyers is to first be sure you want a longterm financial committment to any timeshare before you buy. As DCTooTall points out, for WDW, you probably come out ahead just renting...even if you go every year. And that's true whether you rent DVC or Wyndham from an owner, or any other option.