This family has been reported time after time NOTHING has ever been done. WAiT the parents was made to go to parenting classes they did attend they just did not learn anything or carry thru with what they learned at home. They have went to the classes 4 or 5 times.
Sounds like a ?!?!? Situation that only the state and professionals can help with. Poor kid.Almost 12 yr old boy soiling himself. No he has no known medical issue that would cause this. He does not care that he stinks at home or at school an YES he does soil himself at school.
If he's on the spectrum this really isn't uncommon. As others have said, encopresis is common among kids on the spectrum, usually a result of witholding bowel movements because of an anxiety issue or as a sensory issue. There are medical treatments for it (usually laxatives and fiber) so he should see his PCP but it's also important for him to speak with a counselor. My son is on the spectrum and we struggled with this for years, it definitely wasn't a quick fix and it took a team approach to resolve the issue.NO Singulair. He is some what delayed an yes in the spectrum.
Has just a touch of CP an PVL his teachers an coaches are usually surprised to hear this.
Should get his black belt in Tae QUon Do in the next few months.
In many ways he's an amazing kid.
No he has no known medical issue that would cause this.
He is some what delayed an yes in the spectrum.
Has just a touch of CP an PVL
So which of your posts is correct? The boy has no known medical issues? Or he is on the spectrum with "a touch" of CP and PVL? (I'm not sure what "a touch" means -- either he has that dx or not, if you don't believe it's accurate, get a medical degree)
Your first post seems rather annoyed that a "typical" 12 yr old boy has these issues. But later posts indicate that he clearly does have medically diagnosed needs as well as a not-so-perfect home life, which most likely are being addressed, just not to your liking. If you don't interact directly with the child, MYOB. If you work with this child daily/regularly, have some compassion for him. Talk with him and help him learn what is socially appropriate, help him create a schedule to alleviate these concerns, support his efforts rather than chastising his failures. These things take time and won't be overcome without a lot of positive reinforcement. If you can't have the compassion to help this young person, maybe you need to request a different assignment or consider a different line of work.
It is clearly an entirely different situation that the OP made it appear, and I wonder why on earth it wasn't presented more accurately in the first place.You found a nice way to say what I was thinking. There is always more to a story that can be seen from the outside looking in, and unless you are parked inside with the rest of the crew, you only have a rather on dimensional snapshot of the family situation. I feel strongly that sometimes "help" from people is more of a judgement on those folks living the situation.
From previous posts this definitely sounds like one of those "regional" things.It is clearly an entirely different situation that the OP made it appear, and I wonder why on earth it wasn't presented more accurately in the first place.![]()