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[DisneyBamaFan]

No it isn't. You equated driving 3 hours to be with one's girlfriend/boyfriend, to driving 3 hours (6 hours roundtrip) to an event with young kids in the car, at least one who gets carsick. Very different.

You are more interested in arguing semantics than looking at the point of the statement. We bend over backwards early in our relationships for the ones that we love. When does that stop, and why?

 

[Rora]

OP- Like the others have suggested, I think it would be best to make it a mini-trip. Give your kids some dramamine or ask their doctor what would work the best. Then go to this wedding, put on a smile and sneak away to your hotel room whenever you want.

Good luck!

 

[Allison]

My brother and sister would never forgive me if I skipped their kids weddings. Plus, I would never want to miss them. Your husband really does belong there. If you don't have a sitter to hire or family nearby he should go alone.

I agree. This isn't a distant relative that noone knows and the husband wants to be there.

Glad it worked out.

 

[Monte Cristo]

Sounds like you people live in Rhode Island. They never go any where over an hour without luggage and a food plan. My husband has the need to drive all the time. He thinks nothing of going to Maine for the day and driving home. I have gone to the point of cape cod and stopping to pee then driving home, just for the ride. Of course I sleep 5 minutes in the car. So any ride is fine with me.

Now that's a low blow!
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Sometimes true though.