would you go??

[The Mystery Machine]

i dont know what do you guys think im kinda hoping he can come down(at least the week) and staying there with the girls for the next week with the rest of the family what are your thoughts??

My thoughts?

I would go and tell hubby he is FREE to kick back at home. He doesn't particularily care for staying in a house with 12 people for a week. Now if he wanted to join us that is another matter. But I would not force him to.

Sounds like your DH wants to stay home, right? Not sure what the issue is. He said you could go and have fun.

 

[SharpMomOfTwo]

Who says that you have to stay for the full 2 weeks? Your whole family go down when your DH can get off, and your whole family can leave when you DH needs to be home. Problem solved.

 

[disykat]

id really like to go but if my dh couldnt go then of course i would feel bad about that and not want to go but it is free and i would be with the rest of the family but then if i said i couldn't go to my sil and then my dh said he could then i would feel bad cuz by then she might have invited someone elseand not have room for us so i would probably say i would go and then wait and see if my dh could go after all and then if he couldnt just go without him cuz afterall wed eb with all that family and it would be fun anyway....

 

[Gagirl69]

Sorry, I couldn't get through your post. It would be helpful if you could use periods and capital letters.

I agree. That was the longest sentence I've ever seen.

 

[ozarkmom]

I would go in a heartbeat. I don't see a problem.

 

[MerMom60_94]

If the trip is pretty much paid for and at a minimal cost to your family, I say go and have fun. If for nobody else, go for your children so they don't miss out on the experience of going with the extended family. If, on the other hand, it were going to be costly and I could instead take the money and go with my DH at another point in time, I would plan my own family trip. Really, I would miss my husband, but it wouldn't stop me from going.

 

[Va-bear]

I understand your hesitation, my DH and I have never vacationed apart. But, I would if he couldn't go and he didn't feel left out. He's encouraging you and you like his family.... GO!!!!

How often will you and your children get a chance at 2 weeks of free housing at WDW?!! And the kids will have a very special memory w/extended family. Some of my fav memories are crabbing w/ my Aunts/Uncles/cousins when I was little - ofcourse, we all all 'too busy' now to get together very often.......but I still have the sweet memories. And I'd be willing to bet a large amount of money that DH finds a way to be there for longer than he says now (WHO wants to miss that!)

Good luck.

 

[shortbun]

Very nice of your SIL and yep, I'd go. Don't worry about the punctuation people, I actually did not notice. lol! I didn't notice your request for a post critique either!

 

[SaraJayne]

I'm the wrong person to ask...the kids and I are going to WDW for a week and DH is staying home.

And that's the way he wants it.

 

[hereyago]

Go. When I was married, we never did anything and I traveled before meeting him.
Anyway, with that, I have taken DD11 on many trips including Hawaii.
Now obviously your case is way different, but you know, never pass up an opportunity because life is too short and precious.

 

[tayandjensmom]

I have done this many times in the past. My dh has a difficult time getting vacation during the summer months. He always encourages the kids and I to visit my family, 500 miles away. Yes, we miss each other, we talk daily, and we have a great time. Absence makes the heart grow fonder

I get along great my with in laws. Would have no issues going on vacation with them. Talk about thoughtful of your sil, renting the house for the entire family. Go and enjoy yourself. Hope your husband can get a week away. And if he can't, I'm sure he will be happy you and the kids can enjoy the time at Disney. I know mine would! Lisa