Would you consider this a Threat?

[happily single]

Ahh the drama of dating! Lol. First a little background for those of you not familiar with my story. I was dating this man, who cheated on me. Well fast forward several weeks ago, I find out he had another girlfriend (now cheating on me with two women!). This second girl reaches out to me to talk to me. Against my better judgment I call her without blocking my number We talk for hours. Well last night I get a nasty text telling me to mind my own business "Keep my name out of your mouth"! What the heck?? I spoke to you once several weeks ago and nothing since.

So this morning I check her Myspace page which reads: "For those of you with my name in your mouth (swear word) choke on it. Going to cause trouble tonight "

I haven't responded to her in any way, but I'm taking this as a threat! I never gave her my address, but it's very easy to find these things out.

 

[Jennasis]

Was the original conversation yo had with her a "friendly" one. I mean no yelling, cursing, etc.?

I bet your ex or somebody was filling her head with a tall tale about something you allegedly said. I would take a screen shot of her myspace page and save the text msg. If anything happens, you'll have proof.

 

[sbell111]

Ahh the drama of dating! Lol. First a little background for those of you not familiar with my story. I was dating this man, who cheated on me. Well fast forward several weeks ago, I find out he had another girlfriend (now cheating on me with two women!). This second girl reaches out to me to talk to me. Against my better judgment I call her without blocking my number We talk for hours. Well last night I get a nasty text telling me to mind my own business "Keep my name out of your mouth"! What the heck?? I spoke to you once several weeks ago and nothing since.

So this morning I check her Myspace page which reads: "For those of you with my name in your mouth (swear word) choke on it. Going to cause trouble tonight "

I haven't responded to her in any way, but I'm taking this as a threat! I never gave her my address, but it's very easy to find these things out.

Just so I understand, some guy that you used to date is now dating someone else. For some reason, you called her on the phone and talked to her for hours. Now she has texted you really mad.

Personally, I would make a quick reply to the text explaining (politely) that I had no clue why she was mad. Then I would separate myself completely from either of their lives.

 

[happily single]

To clarify, the phone conversation was nice, we just shared stories about the lies he told, etc. We ended on a good note. I called her because we had been emailing all day and she asked me to call her and gave me her number.

I did cut and paste her myspace onto my email and I still have the text message.

Ahh, the drama of it all

 

[ilovejack02]

I would imagine that the lying cheating boyfriend has told her a few lies.

 

[Lisa loves Pooh]

Maybe or mabye not. Not everyone is out to harm people and post crap on tehir facebook. However--I'm not sure you should continue to engage with her.

If she is presently dating this guy--and he is lying ot her...and she believes him--she's likely going to htink your jealous and tryng to steal him back.

Sometimes people's relationsihps are so unhealthy that they can't see straight.

Not sure why you spoke to her. But I would stop. And I would unfriend her on facebook.

 

[JerseyJanice]

Bet you're not too happy to be single right now!

J/K! But this sounds like something high school kids would do.

The only thing you can do is stay away from this woman and the guy you used to date.

 

[smiley]

Are you 100% positive it was her who sent the text message and posted on your myspace account? Somebody else (ex-boyfriend) could have hacked into her accounts and started this problem. You really won't know who it was unless you speak with her and hear it straight from the horses mouth, so to speak.

 

[Boxley]

Bet you're not too happy to be single right now!

J/K! But this sounds like something high school kids would do.

The only thing you can do is stay away from this woman and the guy you used to date.

I agree, you are a grown woman and this drama is beyond High School. It isn't even a threat, its more like the guy who cheated on you is talking his smack to the other girl. Look, just stay out of the way the scum who cheated on you and the girl who is inciting the drama. Don't even address her, just leave it alone and if something comes up, just tell her you don't know what is going on and you don't care. Can't incite anything if there isn't anything to get upset about.

 

[tomthebarncat]

Will you be fighting after class? this is so juvenile. I agree that you brought this on yourself when you made contact with this woman. Please let this go and stop all communication with loser ex boyfriend and his mangy new girlfriends. Remember: men love a good catfight but no one really wants to be dating the cat!

 

[IDoDis]

Sounds like a case of mistaken identity to me. She sent the text to the wrong phone number. That message and the message on her fb page were meant for someone else. If you were on friendly terms, this is what I would suspect to be the case.

How old is this girl anyway? Sounds very immature.

 

[a1tinkfans]

UGH!

RUN do not walk ...from the drama...life is already too short for drama!

 

[kafitty]

personally, i wouldn't take it as a threat. sounds like she's just going out to party, to me.

however, just in case, here's a good trick to know:

instead of just copying & pasting the text of her myspace status, you can take a screen shot - literally, a picture of what is currently on your screen. That way, nobody can say that you just made it up or changed the wording or whatever. (Well, you COULD, via photoshop, but not as easily and there are ways to figure out if an image has been altered.)

see that little button on the top of your keyboard that says "Prnt Scrn" on it? on my laptop it's sharing a key with SysRq (whatever the heck that is ) It's on the top right of the keyboard.

have showing on your screen whatever you want to take a picture of, then hit CTRL and Prnt Scrn (Print Screen) at the same time.

then open Paint, and on a blank canvas, hit CTRL + V (paste).

Voila! Whatever you took a picture of should now be a save-able image. So, uh, save it, haha.

(this is also a great trick for stealing copyrighted pictures off the internet, but shhhhhhhhhhhhh don't tell anyone, heheheh. That's where i learned to do it; unfortunately, it's become a valuable tool against my crazy stalker )


good luck with everything!