Just my two cents: I recently bought a Honda Odyssey '09. I can honestly say that I am truly impressed with it, and I am NOT a van person. In fact, I vigorously fought getting a van for years but succumbed due to having two young girls who are high maintenance in the car. We've owned a cool Chevy tahoe, Blazer before that, then bought a CR-V and really fell in love with Honda. The Odyssey rides amazingly well...I liken it to a heavier CR-V which is a huge compliment to the van. Very tight, and not at all mushy and bouncy. It's also the very safest van out there, and there are deals to be had on it. My EX listed for about $34,500 and I bought it for $25,000...or very close to it. And I got 3.9% financing to boot.
Instead of paying $2500 for a drop-down DVD and remote starter I went after-market and got both for under $1000. I find that if you have a good DVD player with wireless headphones you don't need the Sirius tv. Kids fight over the remote and channels.
Yes, Chrysler has some great deals and you will never be able to buy a T&C cheaper, but make no mistake: there is a reason why they are the cheapest. And you get so screwed on the resale that it's not worth it. I also think you can get an Odyssey for as cheap as ever. I never expected to get mine for the price I paid. Great van...great price. And I never in my life expected to like a minivan.
Hope that helps!