My husband is also not into cruising. Last cruise I just took DS 10 and DD 15. We had a blast, but the kids did hang out with me alot (rather than do the clubs) We did all shore excursions together, dinner, etc.. My daughter did meet some teens and had fun with them as well a few evenings. I am planning another cruise without hubby. Now my youngest also wants to go so at the time of sailing I will have DD 18, DS 13 and DS 8. With three kids I will always have one of them to do something with - or if not there are Galley tours and all kinds of other stuff to do. So I would say go for it. I would love to have the happy father with us as pictured in brochures, but since he wouldn't be enjoying himself - we are better off without him. His idea of a good time is a deserted island with no other people, nothing to do, no where to be... boring!