Guest is given a map showing the location of the assigned room he has chosen to wait for. (I assume that the general location is indicated, not the specific room--this is what the CR desk did when we checked in last December).
That's not what happened according to the op. All the op said was that the requests had been received and that a room was blocked. It's simply not possible to get a room key, then have your room switched, no matter what the manager said to make the op happy.
Regardless, room requests are just that....requests. WDW allows us to place these requests as a courtesy and we are never entitled to them. The fact that a CM may have told the op that her requests were met doesn't change the fact that the requests are not guaranteed. In this case the mistake wasn't that the requests weren't met , it was that the CM told her they were when in fact they were not. I have no doubt that the result of the op's complaints were that some CM got her backside chewed out royally. I hope the room was worth it.
As far as waiting till 3pm, you're not guaranteed of getting a room before that time no matter what your room assignment is. There is a stated check-in time and as long as they meet that time, they've still done nothing wrong.
That WDW chose to compensate a guest for whatever reason is fine with me, I don't question that at all. I do question the right of a guest to complain because they didn't get something they had no right to in the first place. I also wonder what guest was it that didn't get what they asked for because there was a squeakier wheel that had to be greased?
As for askmickey.....there isn't a single person on these boards who does more to help guests coming to the WL. I have no doubt that if she accessed information regarding this particular reservation she had the authority to do so. She is a wonderful source for help and information and it's a shame she is being attacked. I wouldn't blame her if she told us all to go take a flying leap, she certainly isn't getting much thanks for all the good things she does.
Perhaps WDW ought to do away with allowing room requests to be made at all. Then no one would have anything to complain about. With these types of incidents happening more and more, I wouldn't be at all surprised to see it happen.