Why We Can't Have Nice Things...

The offense is for everyone in the car probably because when caught with the open container, the driver used to say, "That's not mine, it's one of the guys in the back." Just like every teen who is caught with drugs in their backpack always says it's not theirs. They were holding it for a friend. :rolleyes:
Back in the day an open container for a passenger was legal here and that’s exactly what would happen, the driver would just hand the passenger their beer. It was pretty common (and quite frightening) for people to be drinking while driving. That we all lived to tell the tale is pretty much a miracle. (For the record I never drank while driving but was in plenty of vehicles with people who did. Involuntarily as a kid and stupidly as a teen/young adult.)
 
Well she didn't realize that the plan set up was only for unlimited texts or internet so she told me I could do both. First month she got the bill and was like >:(>:(.

OUCH!!! :headache::headache::headache:

That reminds me, back in my early 20's, I had a landline telephone plan that would charge me per call if I went over a certain amount of calls per month. Usually, I never went over that amount, so no problem. But my then BFF got a new answering machine. She didn't know how, (or more likely didn't want to change) the switch setting on the answering machine over from allowing for someone to leave only 15 second messages to longer messages. I had asked her several times to change the message length. And asked didn't other people have problems leaving a decent message too? She never answered that.

So, if I wanted to leave a reasonable length message of say, 1 minute, to include any details, meeting place, address, time & directions, I had to call 4 times. And that was just for "one" message. :headache: If I called later in the day, I'd have to leave another 3-4 messages for another "full message." She used to say she'd arrive home and there'd be 11 messages on her machine, including the messages other people left. :laughing:

At the end of a few months, I noticed that my phone bill was excessively high, by about $20 - $30. :earseek: I called the phone company and they said, "You made all these calls to this number. . . (my BFF's phone.") :badpc: I was so peeved that my BFF wouldn't change over her answering machine message length that I started leaving less messages.

Several months later, when we had a falling out for other stuff, she actually said one of the reasons for us ending was how I CHANGED, I used to leave so many messages for her, and then it went down.

So, basically, I was paying another $20 per month in phone bills, because it fed her ego to see so many phone messages listed on her machine. She deliberately kept the answering machine setting to short messages. :badpc: :badpc: :badpc:
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And instead of simply ASKING me why I wasn't calling so much, she assumed our BFF friendship had changed. I wasn't into her anymore the way I used to be.
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:rolleyes: Oh, to be a young, 20-something with all those problems we had. :headache: :lmao:
 
...I'm waiting for the day when churches will have to remove crosses from the tops of their steeples as it offends someone's ability to look up and view the clear blue sky withOUT seeing a religious symbol of another religion. :rolleyes:
:scratchin Very, very unlikely but maybe we should actually look forward to it. Historically the Church has flourished under adversity in a way it never does when we're all living in comfort and complacency. And biblically speaking, cultural dominance isn't the goal.
 
Ugh, I have some elderly relatives that pass on ridiculous memes on Facebook about the "War on Christmas". Chain mail and fake news. It never happened. What did occur was businesses and city halls started including everyone around the December holiday season.


I know it’s the Christmas season when my BIL starts posting about the war on Christmas.

I’d point it out but last time I pointed out his hypocrisy online he went on a rant about how I always picked on him..I wish I was joking.
 

Ugh, I have some elderly relatives that pass on ridiculous memes on Facebook about the "War on Christmas". Chain mail and fake news. It never happened. What did occur was businesses and city halls started including everyone around the December holiday season.
::yes:: I completely agree with the bolded. However I don't feel like everybody needs to be included in everything - that's the opposite of diversity. We can all freely enjoy our own cultural distinctives without taking anything away from one another. Personally, I have no interest in being "included" in Eid or Diwali or anything else like it but I certainly am fine with my neighbours celebrating and wish them well. As I mentioned in a pp - our City Hall (and generally all levels of government) recognizes all major cultural/religious celebrations rather than just trying to homogenize them, and I think that's a much more common sentiment in Canada where "cultural mosaic" is our national identity.
 
::yes:: I completely agree with the bolded. However I don't feel like everybody needs to be included in everything - that's the opposite of diversity. We can all freely enjoy our own cultural distinctives without taking anything away from one another. Personally, I have no interest in being "included" in Eid or Diwali or anything else like it but I certainly am fine with my neighbours celebrating and wish them well. As I mentioned in a pp - our City Hall (and generally all levels of government) recognizes all major cultural/religious celebrations rather than just trying to homogenize them, and I think that's a much more common sentiment in Canada where "cultural mosaic" is our national identity.

I agree however would you not agree that the December holiday includes Christians and well, everyone else? Therefore public places should include everyone when they put up a tree. A government should be inclusive in whatever they put up in public squares and halls. It could get scary quickly if church and state were not separate entities.
 
I know it’s the Christmas season when my BIL starts posting about the war on Christmas.

I’d point it out but last time I pointed out his hypocrisy online he went on a rant about how I always picked on him..I wish I was joking.

At least you aren't related to him by blood. I wish I could say the same! Same relatives that warn that Sharia Law is coming to a town near me any minute.
 
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::yes:: I completely agree with the bolded. However I don't feel like everybody needs to be included in everything - that's the opposite of diversity. We can all freely enjoy our own cultural distinctives without taking anything away from one another.

I agree however would you not agree that the December holiday includes Christians and well, everyone else? Therefore public places should include everyone when they put up a tree. A government should be inclusive in whatever they put up in public squares and halls. It could get scary quickly if church and state were not separate entities.

I agree with you both. So put up something else from another culture. That would be cultural tolerance & allowing for diversity. Don't CHANGE a Christmas tree into something neutral. :sad2:
 
I agree however would you not agree that the December holiday includes Christians and well, everyone else? Therefore public places should include everyone when they put up a tree. A government should be inclusive in whatever they put up in public squares and halls. It could get scary quickly if church and state were not separate entities.
Not sure what you mean by "the December holiday". :confused: If you mean Christmas, well, it's a Christian holiday and sacred time of year for Christians - and secular observances are entrenched in Western culture and accessible for anybody and everybody that wants to participate. If you mean some other thing then I guess I can't answer. :confused3 I've already expressed my thoughts about diversity and inclusion in previous posts and am not touching the "church and state" thing with a 10ft. pole. Neither the United States or Canada are theocracies nor in danger of becoming so, and implying that is as absurd as the idea of a "war on Christmas".
 
:scratchin Very, very unlikely but maybe we should actually look forward to it. Historically the Church has flourished under adversity in a way it never does when we're all living in comfort and complacency. And biblically speaking, cultural dominance isn't the goal.

:ssst: We can't go there. I don't want you to get points.
 
Not sure what you mean by "the December holiday". :confused: If you mean Christmas, well, it's a Christian holiday and sacred time of year for Christians - and secular observances are entrenched in Western culture and accessible for anybody and everybody that wants to participate. If you mean some other thing then I guess I can't answer. :confused3 I've already expressed my thoughts about diversity and inclusion in previous posts and am not touching the "church and state" thing with a 10ft. pole. Neither the United States or Canada are theocracies nor in danger of becoming so, and implying that is as absurd as the idea of a "war on Christmas".

What I mean is everyone gets a holiday in December. Not everyone celebrates Christmas however they get that time off. Many, like me, put up a tree, take a vacation etc. It's not just a Christian holiday to celebrate a religious occasion. Example: Santa is huge for my family, or was when my kids were young and many other non Christians and Christians alike. We always put up a tree and decorations and have family gatherings on December 24 and 25. We are not religious but we celebrate the December holiday.
 
At least you aren't related to him by blood. I wish I could say the same! Same relatives that warn that Sharia Law is coming to a town near me any minute.


Unfortunately, he’s my husbands only family so I play nice for his sake. The BIL has never followed the same rules.
 
Not sure what you mean by "the December holiday". :confused: If you mean Christmas, well, it's a Christian holiday and sacred time of year for Christians - and secular observances are entrenched in Western culture and accessible for anybody and everybody that wants to participate. If you mean some other thing then I guess I can't answer. :confused3 I've already expressed my thoughts about diversity and inclusion in previous posts and am not touching the "church and state" thing with a 10ft. pole. Neither the United States or Canada are theocracies nor in danger of becoming so, and implying that is as absurd as the idea of a "war on Christmas".

What I mean is everyone gets a holiday in December. Not everyone celebrates Christmas however they get that time off. Many, like me, put up a tree, take a vacation etc. It's not just a Christian holiday to celebrate a religious occasion. Example: Santa is huge for my family, or was when my kids were young and many other non Christians and Christians alike. We always put up a tree and decorations and have family gatherings on December 24 and 25. We are not religious but we celebrate the December holiday.
Pretty much exactly what I said in the post you quoted. I'm confused what you think we're disagreeing about.
 
It's not a rule, it's just being inclusive in multicultural societies and businesses. Nobody is stopping people from saying Merry Christmas or calling it a Christmas tree or celebrating Christmas. One of the lamest outrages ever.

A lot of businesses no longer allow their employees to say Merry Christmas for fear that it will offend someone. I always found that silly, because it wouldn't offend me for someone of Jewish descent to say Happy Hanukkah to me, for example. I'd reply, "Happy Hanukkah to you", even though I'm not Jewish. Why shouldn't someone who celebrates Christmas be able to say Merry Christmas? It never ceases to amaze me what people can be offended by.

Your post remindes me of when I first got a cell phone for Christmas in 2006. I was a freshman in college and the plan was either unlimited texts OR internet so this meme reminds me of that (I chose unlimited texts):

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It also reminded me of this:
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I had gotten pretty good at not looking and pressing the right number the correct amount of times and I felt so accomplished for that :lmao:

A couple of my sisters still have phones like that. :confused3 They never want to text, because it's time consuming. They prefer to call & I hate to talk on the phone. I've been tempted to buy them a new phone. :laughing:
 
States that have interstate tolls. The minute we leave Wisconsin we are pretty much hit with tolls from the south, for sure every state towards the East.
 
A couple of my sisters still have phones like that. :confused3 They never want to text, because it's time consuming. They prefer to call & I hate to talk on the phone. I've been tempted to buy them a new phone. :laughing:
That's awesome, just give them a new phone and tell them they gotta get with it :P.

My step-father-in-law had a plan for a while when I met him that didn't include text well it was you had to pay per text. He's since upgraded over time to a plan that includes texting--he however does not text at all--like never.

Just last year he upgraded to a smart phone. Before that he had flip phones. He tried a smart phone in between but he kept butt dialing people :rotfl: so he switched back to a flip phone (I think it was like the only model his carrier offered at that time that was a flip phone) and then upgraded to a smart phone again and has finally stuck with it. He uses a holster and everything. It's funny now because he used to talk about how we were on our phones a lot and now he's the one doing that though he hasn't gotten on social media really. His daughter, who worked with him at his insurance office, handles his FB page which is simply for a business aspect.

I'd rather text unless I need to say something longish or I need an answer now (some people take forever to text back).
 
States that have interstate tolls. The minute we leave Wisconsin we are pretty much hit with tolls from the south, for sure every state towards the East.

When I was young, many moons ago, my Dad used to complain that we had to pay tolls every time we traveled north of North Carolina. That was pretty much a yearly thing, but he still complained. :p We also took a trip to Florida every year. At that time, there weren't toll roads in the south. Florida is full of them now. I despise them also, but it's nothing new.
 
I just thought of another thing I miss: when algorithms for banner ads were less “smart”. Because I don’t know what my phone is trying to say about my browser history with the fact that I’m on a Disney site but seeing a banner ad for a swinger’s resort. :love1:
A little OT maybe, but it reminds me of the hilarious time a few years ago when a DIS'er (who shall remain nameless) posted on the CB just outraged :furious:that a family-friendly site like this would have soft-porn and "dates for hire" ads on it. :blush: He slunk away pretty quick when posters started explaining that he was the only one seeing them - and why. :lmao:
 
That's awesome, just give them a new phone and tell them they gotta get with it :P.

My step-father-in-law had a plan for a while when I met him that didn't include text well it was you had to pay per text. He's since upgraded over time to a plan that includes texting--he however does not text at all--like never.

Just last year he upgraded to a smart phone. Before that he had flip phones. He tried a smart phone in between but he kept butt dialing people :rotfl: so he switched back to a flip phone (I think it was like the only model his carrier offered at that time that was a flip phone) and then upgraded to a smart phone again and has finally stuck with it. He uses a holster and everything. It's funny now because he used to talk about how we were on our phones a lot and now he's the one doing that though he hasn't gotten on social media really. His daughter, who worked with him at his insurance office, handles his FB page which is simply for a business aspect.

I'd rather text unless I need to say something longish or I need an answer now (some people take forever to text back).

I may have to add a phone for them to my Christmas list. :p I'd much rather text as well. The longish calls are the reason I don't like to talk on the phone. I'd love to talk to them daily, if they didn't spend 30 minutes talking about their friends, coworkers, neighbors, friends of neighbors, etc. I haven't lived near them in 23 years. They all know each others friends, coworkers, neighbors, etc. They forget I have no idea who they're talking about. I just zone out & pretend to be listening most of the time.
 














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