I do the same thing. It's very easy to end up spending more than you wanted to for something on eBay if you get caught up in a last minute bidding war. To avoid the temptation, I decide the max I'm willing to pay for the item, put in my bid, and walk away. If I win, great; if not, oh well. Also, if I put something on watch with the intention of bidding on it closer to the end of the auction, 9 times out of 10 I'd forget and the auction would end without me bidding at all. If I bid when I first see something, at least I have a chance.
I've just recently began to sell on ebay again after a 3-year hiatus (have to pay for all those medical bills somehow!) and I totally understand what you are saying. As a seller, the worst is when someone puts in bids on multiple auctions of the same thing from different sellers (ie bidding on seven different Uggs auctions)...then as it get closer to end time they cancel all but the cheapest one. Ebay is supposed to go after them for policy violation but it doesn't often happen.
By the way...for those of you looking to make extra money for the holidays...Our oldest son moved out recently and left behind a roomful of stuff he no longer wants or needs. With his full blessing, we started listing his old toys, collectibles, video games, etc dirt cheap., usually starting at $5 or less. As of right now (two weeks worth of auctions) we have sold over $1000 worth of his "junk" that he was going to throw away
