We are DVCers and we rarely do character meals. They are too chaotic, I hate pictures with either our or others food and drinks in the fore/background, I worry about my kids spilling food on themselves while we are eating, I hate the constant interruptions to the meal and they are so expensive!
Last summer we realized that my youngest hadn't been to a character meal since she was a toddler and didn't remember any of them and that my oldest would be a "Disney" adult next time we went so I made reservations for a bunch of character meals that we had never done. We went to two - Ohana breakfast, character interaction was fine, but the food was awful and it cost me $80 for two kid and one adult breakfasts! Insane. We also did 1900 Park Faire dinner which was great and I would do again, but not likely due to oldest DD turning 10. My kids asked me to cancel the rest of the reservations and they didn't want to do any other character meals so I did.
At this point paying $40+ for my 10 year old to eat means no more pay one price meals for us for a long while or maybe just one a trip. We haven't eaten in the castle since my oldest turned 1, we love Ohana and if they do a Star Wars meal, those are the only situations where I'd be willing to do an AYCE meal at Disney.