I think many of the resorts are 'love it' or 'hate it', it's just some of the 'lovers' (or haters as it may be) are not as vocal.
We own at OKW and I love it for many of the reasons that people list as 'hates.' Love the spread out feel of the resort. Love the tropical theming that feels away from it all. Love the quiet lush surroundings and lack of multiple restaurants, don't need them. Love being farther from the parks, don't care if I can walk to one park, no matter where you are, you will have to bus/drive/walk/boat to the other 3. love, Love,
LOVE the larger rooms. I want to spread out when I am on vacation. I would also NEVER consider vacationing without a car, so we rarely take the bus, except when we go to the MK.
For these very reasons I have never stayed at BWV or BCV, nor have I ever really had any desire to. I am sure they are lovely resorts, just not my cup of tea. The thought of sitting out on a balcony to have a quiet cup of coffee while hundreds or thousands of people wander about beneath you, and all the related noise, is not for me. Probably would like to stay at VWL or AKL at some point, as I like the theming, but when I compare the points to OKW and then think about the size of the room, I hesitate every time. BLT looks interesting, if only to have a view of the MK at some point, it would be nice once. However after looking at those points for a MK view, I doubt I ever will do it.
We stayed at SSR last year and I liked (not loved) the resort. The theming was fine with me but I missed the tropics (and the palm trees) that you find at OKW. To me, as a midwesterner, Florida is Palm trees and tropical decor. The biggest thing I missed at SSR was the ability to park in front of the room and the size of the Living room/kitchen/dining area. Never staying anywhere other than OKW over the years, it was a bit of of shock seeing the size of the kitchen and LR. Those were a negatives,
to me, compared to OKW. I will probably go there again, but not for a while. I found myself longing for OKW when I was there, in fact we drove over there to eat lunch one day, and another day just to 'visit.'
That is why it is nice that DVC has so many options now. It seems that there is something for just about any taste (and pocketbook)