k3chantal
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People will complain no matter what, and DCL knows this.
So if smoking is on one side of the ship only, what about folks who book GTY cabins? Or GT rates? Then it will be, I didn't know I could end up on the smoking side. Or folks who upgrade at the port, or get pixie dust upgrades. It'll only be worse, if you confine smoking to one half. Then your odds are much better to end up near smokers!
I don't smoke and I never have. But, some people on here act like they're going to die if they ever smell it. I'm from California where we have very strict smoking laws, and I rarely encounter it. When I travel around the U.S., though I find a LOT of other states/cities where it's far more prevalent. I guess there are no DCL customers from the South.
My suggestion if you find a smoker next to your cabin (and its bothering you)...just talk to them politely. Remember that most smokers are keenly aware of how they're perceived by others, and are maybe even a bit embarrassed by their habit. Lecturing or being indignant just put people on the defensive- in any situation. Be kind, and most people will be kind back.
That said, in 9 cruises (most in a verandah) I have never had an issue with a cigarette smoker in the neighboring verandah! I bet most people haven't, although obviously some have encountered real problems. My DH does enjoy the cigar up on deck 10 like a PP said, or even better, Meridian.
I would be very careful about approaching strangers over their behaviors. I lived next to a family who made a work out room in their garage and while their teen age son worked out, he also played at a very loud level, music. It was so loud that with my windows and doors closed I could hear it as well as my young impressionable children (the lyrics were not appropriate for children). My mother said, "Just go over there and ask them to turn it down. They will be embarrassed that they inconvenienced you." So I went over and asked. Guess what? Instead they called me all kinds of words that are not allowed on this forum and started harassing me. After three months of this abuse, I started calling the police and having them cited. The verbal abuse continued and they even scratched my husband's car. So even when people have an option to change their behavior (he could have worn wireless headphones or just turned it way down) it doesn't mean they will.
Most smokers know their habit is terrible for them and for others. They have chosen to not fight their addiction but may decide to 'fight' you instead.
Oh, just for the curious, we turned that house into a rental and moved. The music stopped (the same renters have lived there for now five years). So my neighbors were just making a point that they had 'rights' ignoring the fact that they were tramping all over mine.