Nevermind.....it's not worth the points.
This type of response has always puzzled me but I believe I've got it catagorized as P/A sarcasm. If you don't want to say something that you might regret getting called on, then why say anything at all? I know in real-life, the banter seems to be:
"Never mind"
"No. What were you going to say?"
"It's sarcastic. Nevermind. Forget I said anything"
"No, really. I want to know what you're thinking"
And now the original person who used the "nevermind" ploy can say any derogatory, mean or spiteful thing they want to say because the person they've targetted has somehow given them 'permission' to say it. (??!?!)
This is similar to that weird rule that says as long as you preface a comment by saying, "I don't mean to be (fill in the blank), but..."
or
"With all due respect...."
then you (generic you) can now be as disrespectful, petty or mean as you want to be because you made that preface. (A rule I don't really agree with, BTW)
But thanks for helping me out. I'm getting these little human interraction rules down bit by bit and I think what you meant was that you were disagreeing with my opinion but didn't want to actually come out and say anything because you knew your opinion of my opinion would be something normal polite people would object to. But still you couldn't let my opinion slide by without saying SOMETHING snarky, so this is what you said instead.
Nevermind.....it's not worth the points.
Got it!

You disagree with my opinion. Thanks! That's all I really need to know. I carry no illusions that everyone everywhere is going to agree with me all the time. We're cool!
