Okay, I need your opinion on something. This may be a tad long, so if you don't want or have time, I completely understand. Here we gooo--
You all know that my sister and her family are moving back to Florida--we've established that. You also all know that I am closer than close to my sister and her family and love them dearly--we've established that as well. Okay, here's the dilema and how do I say this without sounding like a big old SNOT----SHE'S MESSING WITH OUR DISNEY TRIP!!! Does she not know???? YOU DON'T MESS WITH OUR DISNEY TRIP!!
Last December my mom and I sat down and started planning our trip for this coming October. We asked my sister if they wanted to go and she never really gave us an answer. After keeping at her, she finally told us to go ahead and count them
OUT. At first, yes, we were a bit upset, but it is their choice. So, we started planning the trip for three ADULTS--myself, my mom and dad. I am extremely close to my parents and really kind of liked the idea that it was just going to be the three of us. They will have their room at WL and I will have my room and WL. We have planned pretty much all adult venues to eat; afternoon tea, Brown Derby, Shula's, advance tickets for
MNSSHP, HDDR, etc. I secretly planned on having a chocolate slipper dessert and "dog bones" delivered at our tea. I wanted to get a basket together and have it delivered to their room. I want to go hotel hopping, drinking Lapu Lapu's, well, you get the idea. I just wanted it to be a really special trip for them since we all have had a rough few years.
We are now less than two months out and here's where the problem comes in. About two weeks ago when my sister found out for sure when they were moving, she tells us that maybe they will drive up and go to WDW with us for the weekend. Well, okay---my mom gets on the phone right away and books another room at WL. I get on the phone and crossing my fingers and my toes, cancel and rebook breakfast at Kona for Sat. and dinner at Alfredo's in Italy for Sun. Keep in mind that we are going from three adults to FIVE adults and THREE children, so the only way to do it is to cancel and rebook. We did not get the same times, but at least we were able to get in. We have Shula's for Sat. night, but she opted to bypass this one since it really is not for kids. For lunch Mon. we are going to Portabello Yaht Club but I cannot make those ressies yet, so this is not a big deal. They would then leave after lunch to head back home. Okay, fine--it is set.
Well, today at lunch she proceeds to tell us that my BIL has business in Orlando that week so maybe she and the kids will just stay with us the rest of the week. Are you seeing a problem yet??? But, she tells us that she does not want us to switch any other ressies, they will just wing it. Keep in mind, we have planned adult things and I really doubt I would be able to change things anyway---the rest of the week is Canada (which is virtually impossible to get into anyway), tea at GF, Fantasmic Pkg. at Brown Derby, HDDR (hard ticket), MNSSHP (hard ticket) and Artist Point. One problem is that I just don't see us saying "okay, bye, we have reservations now--you're on your own with your three children (7,5,and 7 mo.) in WDW. I can see my mom saying that she better stay and help her and of course we will all feel guilty. My mom is not very happy with the situation either. We don't want to hurt her feelings in the least but we are just not sure she understands, first of all, that you HAVE to make ressies--hotel, eating, etc., and second of all, we have had this trip planned and have been so excited for a long time. My sis will most likely get annual passes since they will live down there now, so they can go anytime. We are paying for airfare, top dollar for hotel, food and.....well, I just don't want to be rude, BUT...........
Does this sound terrible of my mom and I to feel this way?? It's not that we don't enjoy their company, it will just be an entirely different trip--less (much) relaxing, so to speak. If we would have planned it for all of us from the
beginning, it would be an
entirely different story. Just don't know what to do.
p.s. I also can't believe she would want to take the kids out of school for a week after two months of starting in a new school and already missing 10 days at the beginning.
any opinions?? or are we being totaly immature and selfish??
wow, what a vent. are your eyes crossing?? Thanks for listening.