
grinningghost,
Talk to anyone you see with tattoos when you are out and about. You'll get a good idea on tattoo shops in your area that do good work and you'll get to see the many spots that people choose to get tattooed. OK, so hopefully you won't have to see all the places,LOL.
When you have a better idea of what you may want, go to the shops and see if you like them - is it clean and are you comfortable there with the artists. Also, ask if they will make up some on transfer paper for you, they may charge a little but you'll get a good idea of how it looks and if its the right size for that area.
I'm 36 and got my first tattoo with my oldest son when he graduated HS. I have a little bear with 4 suns overhead on my upper arm, can be seen in a tank top but not a T-shirt. Didn't hurt at all getting it, the next day the area felt kinda like when you scrape your knee.
Earlier this summer my next oldest graduated and we got our tattoos in June. This time I was "brave" and choose to have symbols for love, peace, and happiness done on the inside of my wrist. I had been told it was a real sensitive area and it did feel kinda like a "burn". Not enough for me to say stop during it or anything and I think I'll tattoo the other wrist next so.... it couldn't be that bad!
They are addicting!! Good luck they are such fun to have!!

Kristy