Answering first post...
I'm thrilled to have a trip scheduled. It's been a long time since just the two of us have been anywhere together ( dogs, work, etc) and we deserve it.
We've saved and are doing it right, Beach Club, end of October, Halloween party, 9 nights... we can't wait.
We aren't people who go to WDW every year and I have no idea when/if we'll go back after this trip. We have a list of vacation spots to visit...
So fast pass, no fast pass, whatever, we are excited. This trip is more about finding all the "hidden" stuff, eating/drinking (food and wine) and just relaxing around the hotel, touring other hotels. We feel we have plenty of time to do that and ride the rides a few times. We feel very fortunate to be able to take this trip.
I hope everyone gets to have a great trip sooner or later.