I've stayed at both, and I think I would recommend POR, though it's a tough decision!
I LOVED the POR food court (though as you said you aren't worried about eating at your resort, so this may not be an issue), and the pools at the POR are great as well. I found it nice to have some of the smaller pools spread out around the property, so if you wanted a quieter swim you could visit those instead of the main pool with the water slide. POFQ only has the one pool. though I believe you can wander over to POR to use their pools as well.
The biggest downside of POR is it's size- IT IS HUGE! POFQ is much more manageable and easier to get from your room to the main areas, no matter where they place you. While the scenery at POR is amazing, and they really do a great job of making it look more deluxe than its price, the downside to having the river travel through the whole resort is that you often have to walk around before you can find a bridge to get back to the main area. On the plus side, however, you may not need to walk to the main area all that often since there are bus stops around the outside of the complex. The downside of this is that buses can be very crowded and it takes a good 10-15 minutes sometimes to just get off property!
The boat to DTD is also lovely, and we found that it was better to catch it from POR, even though it is a slightly longer trip. Both times we took it the boat couldn't accommodate all of the people who wanted to get on at POFQ because it was too full from POR, so they had to wait another 20 minutes for the next one.
The landscaping at POR in my opinion is just heads and tails above POFQ. POFQ still retains the 'motel' look because you see all the buildings (though they are very well-decorated buildings and do really remind you of the french quarter!), but POR, especially the magnolia bend section, just looks like a sprawling park or plantation, with the beautiful 'mansions' surrounded by lots of trees and fountains. The buildings are much more spread out, so you really feel as though each 'mansion' is its own plantation and there's no one else around. Great for relaxing, not so great for walking
Neither POR or POFQ offer great options for getting to other resorts for meals, though they are pretty convenient to DTD (about 20-30 minutes by boat), and there are plenty of eating options there
Whichever you pick I hope you have a wonderful stay and really enjoy all the resort has to offer!
