It just goes to show that the term "relaxing" can be SOOO different for many.
Personally, I find BCV the most "relaxing" (in addition to being my favorite). The sound of all the waterfalls at SAB, along with being able to run your toes thru the sand either at SAB or on the beach of Cresent Lake is super relaxing to me!!
I love the luxuriousness of the lobby, and the way I feel pampered just when I walk in (especially if I get a salute from Art). I love the way the bellmen run to your car when you pull up....somehow, it immediately lowers my blood pressure!! I'm going to have to try the spa at BCV sometime...I hear the massages are wonderful...that would be relaxing as well.
I love being able to take a leisurely walk to Epcot for a fine dining experience. I also love just hanging out in the Solarium....the turn-of-the-century elegance relaxes me.
And, there is nothing more relaxing than enjoying a glass of wine on the shores of Crescent lake while watched Illuminations overhead, as the boats go by....it is REALLY cool!!!
My second place would have to be VWL.
I think because I am not a big fan of OKW or SSR, they don't "relax" me very much. I think whatever makes you happy can be very relaxing to you...it would definitely be BCV or VWL for me.
Beca