Where have you experienced rude people at WDW?

Where did the rudeness occur?

  • Waiting in line

  • At a restaurant

  • Parade/show

  • at resort

  • bus

  • Never experienced anyone being rude.


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I have only experienced rudeness once before a parade at MK and it was from a CM.

I was coming out of Cassie's corners with my DS carring food, I stopped for a second to make sure my DS was right behind (I asked him to come beside me) when a cast member stood right in front of me and told me I couldn't stop there. I replied that I knew I wasn't stopping here, I just wanted to hold my DS hand as it was very crowded. He stood there and told me againt to move. I replied "I would but you are blocking my way" :confused3 there was literally no where else to go... It was really weird, made me feel very unconfortable :sad2:

That was the only time and I felt that it took away from some of the magic :guilty:
 
My funny (but weird) rude people story:

DFiance and I made it to the Fantasmic theater VERY early to get one of the front row benches (it was his first trip and he's a HUGE Sorcerer Mickey fan). While we camped out waiting for the show a young-ish French (very limited English) couple came up and asked to sit on the bench and we said okay. DFiance and I were turned sorta facing each other talking and I notice over his shoulder that our new benchmates have decided to make-out during their wait for the show... I quietly point this out to DFiance, chuckle, and continue talking. Well, sure enough, they made out throughout the whole show. Start to finish. They got so into it that they were practically laying on poor DFiance. We didn't even know what to say (plus they spoke virtually no English). We didn't even know if we should be mad or pay admission to the show.

So there is a little romance left in the world! :goodvibes Reminds me of a joke a young child told me: "If you're a frenchman in the bedroom and an Italian in the kitchen; what are you in the bathroom?"


"European" (sound it out if you don't get it)
 
This happened to us on the Disney Wonder. On the last day they have a 'graduation' for all of the kids who participated in the kids' clubs. So my husband and I got to the theater fairly early and got seats in the 6th row or so. If you've never been, the theater has stadium seating, so everyone can see the stage fine, IF everyone stays seated. Well, as soon as the kids started to come into the theater this guy in the 2nd or 3rd row stands up to take pictures or video. Why on earth do you need to stand if you are up front AND if there is stadium seating. So of course other people started to stand too. The folks in the row in front of us and in our row started asking everyone to please sit down so that we could all get pictures of our children. No go! Some folks sat down but a fairly large group down front refused to sit. We got no pictures at all of the show and couldn't see our kids at all. I was so angry. If we ever do the cruise again, we will skip the graduation. We also skip the parades at the parks for the same reason. It's just not worth the hassle for us. I'd rather get onto rides during that time.
 
I have observed rudeness in every way, shape, place and form imaginable at Disney.

Last year, we were there in July. We had done one week at SSR, the following week on the Disney Magic and the week after back at SSR. As you can imagine, 3 weeks of the "Happiest Place On Earth" and it's counterpart and we were about to go nuts. In 95 degree heat every day, no less.

About 3 days into our final week, it got to me. After weeks of being stepped on, run into, stopped short in front of, expected to move aside for either oblivous (the "it's all about US people") or rude, stomped on or trampled along the parade routes, and line cut to death by the entitled or the 300-person-plus-tour groups, I finally snapped!

I told my family "No More!". I was no longer going to be the "nice" one! If someone stepped on me, I yelled OUCH! very very loudly. If someone ran into me - I pushed back. Stopped short in front of me? They found themselves run into. Oh yes, we are in the United States of America people - we drive (and walk) on the right. No more moving over for the people who did not understand this and also felt the need to walk 5 abreast. It was great fun yelling "Red Rover" and breaking up their line of defense!

The culmination that day was dealing with the line cutters. We were entering the "outside" portion of the line at Toy Story Mania. We were behind a 30ish woman and a girl of about 5. She kept talking (in Spanish) on her cell and looking down the walkway. 3 rows into the line and she stops short in front of us and motions for someone to join her at the end of the row (before it turned the corner). Well, here comes hubby carrying a 6 month old baby along with Granny and Grandpa (in their 50's). That did it. I LOUDLY told her "NO LINE CUTTING", and we wouldn't let them pass.

She pitches a hissy fit and complains that I was mean because, after all, hubby needed to change the baby, and did I want a child with a dirty diaper in front of me for the 80 minute wait? I told her she needed to wait OUTSIDE the line until her whole fam-damily joined her, and by-the-way, did it take 3 adults to change a baby's diaper where she came from? Of course, they pushed their way in and proceeded to speak in Spanish about us and how horrible we were. I told her I spoke Spanish and she was wrong to pull a stunt like this. She said, "I despise people like you", to which I replied, "I understand completely, as I feel the exact same way about you". We reached the CM that stands right before you enter the building, and my family paused and told her what had occurred. She simply shrugged and said she couldn't do anything as she had not seen it.

Upon exiting the ride, I went over to the same CM and asked for a manager. I told him the entire story and he was sympathetic and somewhat annoyed as well. He mentioned that they had a meeting that very morning about tightening up on this behavior at this ride and would soon be implementing ways to stem it. I like to think that the procedures now in place at TSM are a result of that meeting he had.

My vigilante fever continued the next day. I stood my ground against a South American tour group of about 30 trying to catch up to the other 270 in front of us some ways at Test Track. I also busted a man with a 6 year old boy at Buzz Lightyear. You know the part inside before you get to "Big Buzz" where the standby line snakes back and forth? As we were moving along quite well, I turned around to say something to my nephew. Over his shoulder I saw the man get out of line a ways back by crossing over into the empty FP line, move up about 8 rows and get back into line just behind my group. He was not with the family behind us, but just inserted himself quietly and they didn't say anything.

At the next turn in line, I told the CM standing at the juncture where the FP line merges into the loading room and the CM (in his 50's) just shrugged. Wrong answer! I knew he had to have seen it also, so I said, "So you're just going to do/say nothing? Maybe I need to speak to a manager?" I fully intended to after the ride, but as we moved, he went up to the man and the boy and removed them from the line, back the "wrong way" down the FP line, and out of the ride. Score one for the good guys!

I didn't really accomplish anything by joining the "dark side" with 4 days to go into my trip, but at least I felt like I stuck up for myself.

I think my biggest pet peeve is that these people get by with their rude stunts (not so much the oblivious people walking into people - I get that they are distracted by Disney) because hardly anyone EVER stands up for themselves and calls them out on their behavior. When they know full well that 9 out of 10 people will grumble, but say or do nothing, it empowers them to just keep on doing whatever they please, and to heck with anyone else.

I'm not going to take it anymore. At least not quietly. :thumbsup2
 

Threads like this are why we don't do parades, and why we don't enjoy staying for fireworks much.

That said, I must have been oblivious because I really didn't notice many rude people. Nothing sticks out in my mind: the few times I was bumped into I was apologized to, as I apologized to those I bumped. Cast members were courteous and friendly. DH says, though, that we did get dirty looks in line especially at rides like Dumbo and Peter Pan because DS2 was using his stroller as a wheelchair, for which we had the proper GAC. I assume they couldn't tell by looking at him that he is unable to walk or stand at all, and that the GAC saved our backs from constantly holding a squirming 30 lb. toddler who always wants to go back and forth from Mom to Dad.
 
I didn't see it was multiple choice, so I chose "in line." But I'd have certainly chosen the bus as well. We experienced the worst rudeness waiting for the ME at the Contemporary last September. Our 4:15PM bus never arrived, and by the time the next bus showed, it was kind of like a stampede. My kids & their grandmother & I were no match for the others in line and finally decided we would rather be late than stoop to their level. The worst part of it was the large group who obviously didn't check ANY of their luggage ahead of time and literally shoved their multiple carts of bags to the front of the line and insisted on being first. We backed off and laughed - I figured if Disney couldn't get us to the airport on time that they'd put us up for the night and make new flight arrangements for us. In the end, everyone got on that bus but us, but Disney sent an empty one just minutes later and it was so much better. Sometimes its best just to let the rude people have what they want.
 
I have observed rudeness in every way, shape, place and form imaginable at Disney...

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I think my biggest pet peeve is that these people get by with their rude stunts (not so much the oblivious people walking into people - I get that they are distracted by Disney) because hardly anyone EVER stands up for themselves and calls them out on their behavior. When they know full well that 9 out of 10 people will grumble, but say or do nothing, it empowers them to just keep on doing whatever they please, and to heck with anyone else.

I'm not going to take it anymore. At least not quietly. :thumbsup2

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I said it the other day, and I'll repeat it -- this is NOT the year to tick off Americans in one of their own theme parks. With the BP-enabled oil spill, Wall Street plundering our retirement savings, jobs flying across the ocean, wholesale invasion across our southern border, and continuing frustration over our involvement in southwest Asia, we're a pretty touchy group of people right now.

Disney, I hope, realizes this and will take stronger efforts to police and correct potentially disruptive behavior in the parks. Line cutting, flash-mob tour group mentality, stopping in the middle of the row, cutting in front of parade watchers -- any of these could be the flash point evoking a stronger than normal reaction from someone just like TiaMaria --- or me --- or you...

I hope we can keep it non-kinetic, as I don't want to go to jail over someone cutting in front of me. But I'm not going to let it happen without a loud and strong protest, one that might well escalate to managers getting involved.

I, too, am tired of the "advantage" rule breakers have over the rest of us that behave appropriately.

Biff hates manure. He had good reason to.
 
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Honestly, I see less rudeness in WDW than I do in daily life. I'm sure it's there, but 99.9% of the people seem to be having fun and trying to be good citizens, and I basically just tune out the bad behavior unless it's truly egregious.

That having been said, our family doesn't do the parades. I have zero interest in them, and they sound like a breeding ground for tension, so I don't see that changing any time soon.
 
I'm 20 years old, but on my trip earlier this month, I often felt invisible. I went with a friend, also 20. We saved all year and paid for the trip in full just like every other customer, but because of our youthful appearance (okay, we look like we're fresh out of high school :laughing:) we weren't given much respect. While in line at counter-service restaurants or attractions, CMs would often defer to the closest "adult" standing behind us. It was very frustrating when families behind us would walk past us or pay for their food first without correcting the CM. The times I spoke up, I was met with surprise or indifference.

On that note, I really enjoy the family atmosphere of WDW even though my parents are sick and can't vacation with me anymore. I get so disheartened when people treat me like the scum of the earth for looking like a teenager. On my recent trip, when I was ready to make my purchase at MouseGear, a 10-year-old boy stepped out of the check-out line as I approached. Shortly after I moved into his spot, I noticed his mother standing a few feet away with a murderous look on her face. She scolded her son for failing to save her spot and I rushed to apologize and wave her in front of me in line. She screamed, "FORGET IT!" and walked away. It really shook me up because it was an honest mistake and I wanted to make things right. :confused3

I still had an amazing time on my vacation and was met with kindness by most CMs; some of whom went out of their way to make me feel welcome. :love:
 
We had a waitress at Sci-Fi diner be rude to m husband, and I can remeber the conversation.
We waited an extra hour of waiting for the Sci. Then, we were directed to our table. The place had so many left over tables, you could probrably fit all the people that were waiting. We though there was a reason the host and hotess's were dtanding by and chatting and chuckling."



Generally, you are not waiting for a table, you are waiting for a server. I work in the service industry and during our busiest times we have a waiting list and empty tables. I would rather put people on a waiting list than place them at a table and have them wait for an hour for their server to get to them. Also, when you overwhelm the kitchen staff you will be waiting an excessive amount of time for your meal and the food will be horrible. Keep in mind that when you are waiting for an hour it's not because the staff is being lazy. They are working double hard because they are getting slammed with tables. Plus, the majority of people who have been waiting so long are CRABBY and take it out on the server. Give them a break, please! I think that everyone should work in the service industry at least once so that they see it from the other side.

That being said, there is absolutely no excuse for the rudeness of your waitress. If any of my waitstaff responded to a customer like that s/he would be fired on the spot.
 
When waiting for a parade I had a pretty bad non-disney moment...

When we arrived there was a woman with a stroller, slanted sidways and she had saved some seats next to her with some sweaters. The curb spots to her left where open, but I still asked if anyone was there and she said yes, her family was on it's way. So, we stood behind the open spots. When her family showed up...it was her mother and two small children. Clearly, she had saved spots for at least double that...plus that dang stroller. Since, no one was in those now open curb spots, I plopped my two kids down. She crumbled some obsenities under her breath and made comments the whole time about it. Not only did her family all have spots to sit, but there was room to spare.

I shouldn't have let it get to me, but as it got more crowed and more kiddo's were showing up behind me and my husband, I pointed out the open curb to them. Oh, she went off. Hee hee....maybe can stick a couple extra kids in your stroller.

Some people just never get the Disney spirit.
 
On my trip in May we were taking the monorail to epcot from the TTC. When we boarded the monorail the people on line in front of us sat on one side of the compartment. The seat on the other side was already taken by people who were there already from the epcot. (???) There was only three of them on that side but the young women around mid 20's had her bags spread out on the seat so my Gf and I had to stand. We stood at the pole directly in front of her and kept looking at her to see if she would offer a seat to us since there would be enough room if she put just one of her bags on her lap or the floor. Well, she never said a word and we would slowly start standing closer to her to see if she would notice but she was too into her own world. The weird part is that there were no other stops on that monrail. So they came from Epcot and never got off at the TTC and went back to epcot and then got off.
 
I would say many times in line. Especially when walking a good length of the que a kid or two run ahead passing people and then the rest of the family has to push by to catch up.


I did have a problem at a parade. I sat on the curb, a CM suggested I take the spot at 2:50 to sit instead of stand. I asked the people next to the open spot if it was open both sides say yes. We sit down one person on left says you can't have your feet on the street. Person on the right says a CM is going to tell me to move my feet up. CM about 4 feet away. So I said when I see the parade come around the corner I'll know to move my feet up, you may want to strech yours out we still have ten minutes before the parade starts.
 
I have observed rudeness in every way, shape, place and form imaginable at Disney.

Last year, we were there in July. We had done one week at SSR, the following week on the Disney Magic and the week after back at SSR. As you can imagine, 3 weeks of the "Happiest Place On Earth" and it's counterpart and we were about to go nuts. In 95 degree heat every day, no less.

About 3 days into our final week, it got to me. After weeks of being stepped on, run into, stopped short in front of, expected to move aside for either oblivous (the "it's all about US people") or rude, stomped on or trampled along the parade routes, and line cut to death by the entitled or the 300-person-plus-tour groups, I finally snapped!

I told my family "No More!". I was no longer going to be the "nice" one! If someone stepped on me, I yelled OUCH! very very loudly. If someone ran into me - I pushed back. Stopped short in front of me? They found themselves run into. Oh yes, we are in the United States of America people - we drive (and walk) on the right. No more moving over for the people who did not understand this and also felt the need to walk 5 abreast. It was great fun yelling "Red Rover" and breaking up their line of defense!

The culmination that day was dealing with the line cutters. We were entering the "outside" portion of the line at Toy Story Mania. We were behind a 30ish woman and a girl of about 5. She kept talking (in Spanish) on her cell and looking down the walkway. 3 rows into the line and she stops short in front of us and motions for someone to join her at the end of the row (before it turned the corner). Well, here comes hubby carrying a 6 month old baby along with Granny and Grandpa (in their 50's). That did it. I LOUDLY told her "NO LINE CUTTING", and we wouldn't let them pass.

She pitches a hissy fit and complains that I was mean because, after all, hubby needed to change the baby, and did I want a child with a dirty diaper in front of me for the 80 minute wait? I told her she needed to wait OUTSIDE the line until her whole fam-damily joined her, and by-the-way, did it take 3 adults to change a baby's diaper where she came from? Of course, they pushed their way in and proceeded to speak in Spanish about us and how horrible we were. I told her I spoke Spanish and she was wrong to pull a stunt like this. She said, "I despise people like you", to which I replied, "I understand completely, as I feel the exact same way about you". We reached the CM that stands right before you enter the building, and my family paused and told her what had occurred. She simply shrugged and said she couldn't do anything as she had not seen it.

Upon exiting the ride, I went over to the same CM and asked for a manager. I told him the entire story and he was sympathetic and somewhat annoyed as well. He mentioned that they had a meeting that very morning about tightening up on this behavior at this ride and would soon be implementing ways to stem it. I like to think that the procedures now in place at TSM are a result of that meeting he had.

My vigilante fever continued the next day. I stood my ground against a South American tour group of about 30 trying to catch up to the other 270 in front of us some ways at Test Track. I also busted a man with a 6 year old boy at Buzz Lightyear. You know the part inside before you get to "Big Buzz" where the standby line snakes back and forth? As we were moving along quite well, I turned around to say something to my nephew. Over his shoulder I saw the man get out of line a ways back by crossing over into the empty FP line, move up about 8 rows and get back into line just behind my group. He was not with the family behind us, but just inserted himself quietly and they didn't say anything.

At the next turn in line, I told the CM standing at the juncture where the FP line merges into the loading room and the CM (in his 50's) just shrugged. Wrong answer! I knew he had to have seen it also, so I said, "So you're just going to do/say nothing? Maybe I need to speak to a manager?" I fully intended to after the ride, but as we moved, he went up to the man and the boy and removed them from the line, back the "wrong way" down the FP line, and out of the ride. Score one for the good guys!

I didn't really accomplish anything by joining the "dark side" with 4 days to go into my trip, but at least I felt like I stuck up for myself.

I think my biggest pet peeve is that these people get by with their rude stunts (not so much the oblivious people walking into people - I get that they are distracted by Disney) because hardly anyone EVER stands up for themselves and calls them out on their behavior. When they know full well that 9 out of 10 people will grumble, but say or do nothing, it empowers them to just keep on doing whatever they please, and to heck with anyone else.

I'm not going to take it anymore. At least not quietly. :thumbsup2

Can I go to Disney with you? haha I don't ever have guts to stand up for myself like that.
 
My answer was resort and it was this past visit at the GF. The CM did not want to touch anything that I tried to give to him ( check-in desk) and everything I handed him, he made sure to put it on the counter and not my hand which was out:mad:. Then when my credit limit came back, he seemed shocked that I was awarded a higher charging limit for the hotel. I could have hit him with my o2 tank, but instead I just let it go and got my husband on him:laughing:. He told him that it was very rude of him to place my Items on the counter when I had in fact placed them in his hand. He also made him pick up my ID and CC and place them back in my hand. You could tell that he did not want to either.:sad2:
 
Last November on the last Saturday of the F&W Festival, we were in the FP line for Test Track. In front of us were an obviously drunk 20-something man and his girlfriend. Despite it being the FP line it was a rather long wait; after a time, the drunk guy started yelling for his group of friends who were farther back to come up and join him and his gf. When DH protested that we were not going to allow a large group of people to cut in front of us, the drunk guy started yelling, saying that they were a "group" and had to be together. We stood our ground and told him that if he continued to persist that we would call over a CM. Then he backed off somewhat, the friends didn't move up the line, but he was loud, abusive and nasty, called DH an "old fart", continued to shout down the line at his "group" for the entire remaining time we were in line. I just felt SO uncomfortable but I convinced DH to just let it go, it wasn't worth ruining our afternoon over.
 
Thinking really hard back over almost 30 visits to the world, only three things really stand out.

Test Track-I don't normally mind if one or two people come through to join their party in front of me. I just smile and let them pass. This particular time though, we were behind what turned out to be part of a Brazilian tour group. They stopped some distance in front of us ( they were almost at the loading area) and started yelling and motioning for someone to join them. I let two or three pass with my usual "it's ok" attitude, but, when about 15 more showed up, I realized my mistake. That's when I told them "no more" and stood next to my family, instead of kind of behind them. As the members of the group kept trying to push through, my arm suddenly developed a twitch and my elbow began pushing behind me. It was odd-everytime one of the tour group tried to push past me, my elbow jerked backwards. :confused3
The ones behind me yelled up to the ones in front that I wouldn't let them through. I told them that their friends in front were certainly welcome to walk back to them if they all needed to be together.
The group in front did not bother to walk back. Guess they didn't need to be together, after all. I couldn't believe that the people behind me had let this many people shove past them in line.

The second was in a ride line (I think it was Buzz, but am really not sure). There were 4 guys in front of us. One of them needed to shower....badly, but that's not the rude part. The rude part was that, while standing in line, he was putting his hand down the inside of his partners' pants! I said "Someone needs to go back to their hotel room". Even the other 2 guys with them told them to cut it out, but, what can you say? I guess true love really has no bounds. :love:
My grandsons, who were getting a birdseye view of the groping, 'cause you know they were at exactly waist level to these guys, were cracking up and not being quiet about it.

Last was a bus with cheerleaders after a late EMH. Kids on the bus were dozing. Heck, even some parents were nodding off. Suddenly, there's all of this chanting and yelling. And more cheering...and more. Everybody was complaining about all of this top of their lungs yelling, but the bus driver didn't say a word to them. When they got off of the bus, people applauded. I don't think it was in appreciation of their fine skills, though. :cheer2:
 
The worst we experienced was 2008 MVMCP. It was a sold out night. It was an hour before the parade and we could not fiind a spot anywhere along the parade route (I'm not talking a front row spot, I mean any spot). It was my DD's first trip to WDW and she was 2 yrs 10 months so we really did not want to wait for the 10:30 parade as I wasn't sure she could make it that late. A family that was under the rope, saw us and took pity on us and motioned to us and said that they had saved enough room for their family that they would move over and would squeeze us in with them. I was so happy and grateful. They moved over and we were climbing over the rope to get into the spot. We were on the sidewalk side. As we were moving to the spot two adults with two teens quickly jumped the front rope and took the spot. The family told them that they had moved to give us that spot so our little girl could see the parade and the family with the teens refused to move. We finally gave up trying to see the parade and went and saw the fairies. Luckily DD is a night owl, so we kept her up for the late parade and got a spot on Main Street. It was hard to keep DD awake before it started and she was cranky, but once it started she perked up and got really excited and loved it. After it was over, she was asleep before we hit the front gate of the park.


We were at DL/CA 2 weeks ago and were in the 2nd row of people back for the Pixar parade, in an area where the crowd went several rows back. A group of about 6 people on the front row would not sit down so that anyone behind them could see, including DD who is 4 and could not see a thing with them standing. She was trying to kind of push her way into a space between members of their party so she could see which would basically put herself on the front row with them, and I told her not to do that. The lady sitting next to them, looked at me and said "They are the ones being rude so she can't see, let her do it"... so I did. They gave the poor kid a couple of dirty looks and then turned and gave me one, but I didn't tell her to move and at least she saw the parade ( I on the other hand, from my seated position couldn't see very much of it, but I didn't want to get up because I didn't want to block the people behind me and I wanted to be on DD's level. Plus, they were tall, so I'm not sure I could have seen even if I was standing).
 

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