My dh doesn't get home from work until I'm asleep for about 3 hours - then he's up and back at work (works 9-midnight and 7-1:30) before I get up. The only together time we have is Friday/Saturday nights. I have always been a "don't touch me while I sleep" person - even my kids know this. We were out of town early this week because my oldest dd had surgery 2.5 hours away and we shared a double bed (we have a king at home) - I didn't sleep at all the 1st night and we got a 2nd room the 2nd night (family of 5 - me, dh, dd25, ds8 and dd5) - we didn't want either child sleeping with her that 2nd night anyway.