I like to stay at different places. I've done all levels and the cabins. But my favourite is BWV. Used to love Pop Century but I've heard the foot court has gone downhill.
Since you mentioned the cabins, although I found them dark I do understand why your DH loves them. There is such a feeling of serenity at Fort Wilderness.
The kids are most likely going to love anywhere you go; honestly, I would just stick to what you and your husband want.
If you want something different, but are trying to please him too, what about renting DVC points and doing the SSR treehouses or a Villas at Wilderness Lodge one bedroom?
Or maybe OKW if you would like bright and he likes to feel away from it all. Those one bedroom balconies are heavenly.
But I don't think there would be anyone that could ever dislike a vacation at BC/BCV. It's so close to Epcot. Has SAB and a wonderful pool bar.
Sorry, it just occurred to me that you didn't ask for advice on where to stay, just if we're adventurous. Insert smile.