Tell him they are male dancers.ericafny said:DBF got very excited about our dinner at Marrakesh...hmm...![]()
ericafny said:DBF got very excited about our dinner at Marrakesh...hmm...![]()
ericafny said:DBF got very excited about our dinner at Marrakesh...hmm...![]()
majortom said:Why does this bother you? Would you have been happier if he said: "Now I don't want to go. Belly dancers suck!" If you did not tell him to get him interested in this meal, why did you mention it?
/carmi
That's EXACTLY what my boyfriend does too (even when there's a nice looking girl ANYWHERE). When I asked him about it, he said "I'm shy."Bay in TN said:ROFL -- the first time we ate there, DH tried to be very considerate of my tender feelings and the moment the belly dancing started, he studiously looked down at his plate and wouldn't look at the stage. You should have seen him trying not to look toward the stage.
You could actually hear the mental monologue going on in his head, "I am eating my food, I am not looking at the belly dancer, I am dining on lamb, This is great lamb, I love it, It's the most fabulous lamb in the whole world and there is no scantily clad jiggling belly dancer to my left and I won't look at her no matter how loud the music gets and how close the jingling bells get, I won't look I won't look I won't look, DANG I looked RATS, I'm in trouble now, I can't believe I was stupid enough to look, What was I thinking, I am eating lamb I am I am I am..."
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majortom said:Why does this bother you? Would you have been happier if he said: "Now I don't want to go. Belly dancers suck!" If you did not tell him to get him interested in this meal, why did you mention it?
/carmi
Bay in TN said:ROFL -- the first time we ate there, DH tried to be very considerate of my tender feelings and the moment the belly dancing started, he studiously looked down at his plate and wouldn't look at the stage. You should have seen him trying not to look toward the stage.
You could actually hear the mental monologue going on in his head, "I am eating my food, I am not looking at the belly dancer, I am dining on lamb, This is great lamb, I love it, It's the most fabulous lamb in the whole world and there is no scantily clad jiggling belly dancer to my left and I won't look at her no matter how loud the music gets and how close the jingling bells get, I won't look I won't look I won't look, DANG I looked RATS, I'm in trouble now, I can't believe I was stupid enough to look, What was I thinking, I am eating lamb I am I am I am..."
I finally said, "Hon, you can watch the belly dancer. I'm not gonna suddenly turn into a ragingly jealous fishwife after 13 years!"
So then he forgot to eat. ::: sigh ::: You can't win for losing with some guys!
--Bay
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Bay in TN said:ROFL -- the first time we ate there, DH tried to be very considerate of my tender feelings and the moment the belly dancing started, he studiously looked down at his plate and wouldn't look at the stage. You should have seen him trying not to look toward the stage.
You could actually hear the mental monologue going on in his head, "I am eating my food, I am not looking at the belly dancer, I am dining on lamb, This is great lamb, I love it, It's the most fabulous lamb in the whole world and there is no scantily clad jiggling belly dancer to my left and I won't look at her no matter how loud the music gets and how close the jingling bells get, I won't look I won't look I won't look, DANG I looked RATS, I'm in trouble now, I can't believe I was stupid enough to look, What was I thinking, I am eating lamb I am I am I am..."
I finally said, "Hon, you can watch the belly dancer. I'm not gonna suddenly turn into a ragingly jealous fishwife after 13 years!"
So then he forgot to eat. ::: sigh ::: You can't win for losing with some guys!
--Bay
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