When DD (now 14) was newborn, the nurse kept insisting that "we" couldn't live in the same house with a baby if it didn't have it's pacifier. She kept insisting, but DD wanted no part of it....nothing came out, so totally useless!! Got real testy at the nurse. for pete's sake, I think the nurse needed it more that my daughter! Now,, at 9th grade came home from shopping with friends with one....I could have died. So told her, if she wants to act like a 1 year old she would be treated like one. No privileges, baby food for supper (thought the bananas were good...til we got to the creamed spinich) and she finaly got the message. With age comes growth....