Hi everybody.
Sorry for being MIA yesterday. Had 2 doctor appt's for my Dad at.
Between the appt's there was time and thought it would be nice to take him by a wildlife center he enjoyed by where he grew up.
Paths, ponds, woods. Perfect. He was in a wheelchair and I can push him. My weight pushing his 260 pounds would be an awesome workout.
We were on a floating walking bridge over the pond and it is made up of planks. Things are going smoothly until the weight of us caused the planks to sink in one area and the difference in height between where we were and where we were going was not made to be handled by a standard wheelchair.
The stupid front wheels, fell into the small rut and my Dad went down and out of the chair as the wheelchair tipped forward.
He landed with 100% of his body weight on his amputated stump.
I am 5'4 and he is 6'2. I was not tall enough or strong enough to lift him up off his leg and the wheelchair was behind him, caught on his back right leg.
It took almost a minute to get him unstuck, rolled to his right and seated.
This Thursday will be 4 weeks from the surgery thank God. He had just had all the staples removed in the morning from the first doctor appointment.
I cried and felt so bad. He cried and felt so helpless. The pain was excruciating, I know.
Here we were on the ground in a place he used to hunt and fish and spent 1/2 of his childhood and now as a 61 year old man, he couldn't even get up off his leg without assistance.
I went home after his second app't then went back last night as he was not having a great time of it.
We have a mtg this morning with the transitional care facility he is in to assess where he is and where he is going in the next few weeks. Then I am on the mission to find a more suitable wheelchair.
I will be back later to post the totals for the week. I have not even weighed myself yet. Yesterday after the spill, I ate like an emotional fool.
Anyway, sorry for dumping and running but you all deserved an explanation of where I was yesterday and this morning. I like the fact I feel accountable to this group - even if the times are not the best.