Wow. You all sound so bitter.
I've said this too many times lately but I'll share it again because it is relevant. My father just passed away (almost 2 weeks ago) from aggressive prostate cancer (BTW, guys, get your PSA's checked! Dad did yearly and it still got him). It was a long, 3 year battle. Trust me when I tell you that I was praying for him. The desire of my heart was that he be healed or at least given more time. I shared that desire with God (and I did have 3 good years with him) but I also prayed for help in accepting what was to happen to my dad. We all die someday of something so I know better than to even think my dad could live forever.
Now, do I think my prayers weren't answered? No way. My dad is healed now. He wasn't healed on earth but he was healed as he died and now lives with God for eternity. And my prayers were heard? You betcha. God helped me through something I thought I could never do. And sure, even if I wasn't a Christian, I would have lived through my dad's death. People do it every day. Yet, my faith sustained me. God has given me peace that passes all understanding... a promise from the Bible that He fulfilled.
Do I think I "bet on all the horses"? No way. But whatever floats your boat. Think what you want.
I'm glad your life is going well, Groucho. My life seems to have ups and downs, sorta like a roller coaster. But, through those highs and lows and sharp turns, God is with me and I am grateful for His presence. There is no promise of a perfect life, all rosy with no troubles just because you choose Christ--not here, anyway. I am of the belief that we all make a choice about God. Looks like you've made a choice and have thought it through. And life is good.

The Bible tells us that God allows to to rain on the just and unjust...Christians certainly don't have an upperhand on rosy conditions!
And communication with God? Sure. Communication does go both ways. It is part of the relationship that you enter into when you accept Christ. God hears and answers. And that is something a non-believer will never understand. Y'all just think we're nuts, LOL.