what would u do???

[buzz for boys]

her facebook comments say that she feels like im trying to become her!!
I am using her story to make up lies about my own and that basically there is nothing wrong with Cam at the moment - backed up by the fact that he hasnt had his op - there are then several comments from fellow 'friends' saying that maybe i make it up for attention !! One has even put maybe he has never had cancer??? Im appaled to see that the nurse has posted if he needed this op they would have done it by now!!!

I now am thinking omg does that mean that everyone doubts that my little is a brave boy who deserves recognition???
Should I post pics to prove that he is ill???

Part of me wants to walk through the gate tomorrow morning and shout at the top of my lungs - He was ill you idiots they were testing him for leukemia that bad enough for ya ???
but then part of me thinks they prob wouldnt believe me anyway.

I use to think that peoples sympathy was the worst thing in the world but now i know its not its people questioning wether you are worthy of their sympathy thats the worst thing in the world

 

[joolz1910]

her facebook comments say that she feels like im trying to become her!!
I am using her story to make up lies about my own and that basically there is nothing wrong with Cam at the moment - backed up by the fact that he hasnt had his op - there are then several comments from fellow 'friends' saying that maybe i make it up for attention !! One has even put maybe he has never had cancer??? Im appaled to see that the nurse has posted if he needed this op they would have done it by now!!!

I now am thinking omg does that mean that everyone doubts that my little is a brave boy who deserves recognition???
Should I post pics to prove that he is ill???

Part of me wants to walk through the gate tomorrow morning and shout at the top of my lungs - He was ill you idiots they were testing him for leukemia that bad enough for ya ???
but then part of me thinks they prob wouldnt believe me anyway.

I use to think that peoples sympathy was the worst thing in the world but now i know its not its people questioning wether you are worthy of their sympathy thats the worst thing in the world

Oh Louise, that is awful. I thought she was criticising the way you were handling the situation with Cam. I hadn't realised that she was calling you a liar. The nurse should know better - she is putting her career on the line with stupid comments like that. These other women who think you are an attention seeker should thank their lucky stars that they are not in your position, and pray that they never are.

Hold your head high sweetheart.

 

[howlongtillsummer?]

I would put my chin up, smile and ignore the sweet lot of them. It is not a major part of your life so you should rise above the whole thing.

 

[Nubbedy]

So sorry to hear this Louise, you and your family have been through enough. Please don't move the children from their school though, it's so not fair on them. And if this vile woman is employed at the school in any way, then they should be taking steps to deal with it - it's just so unprofessional. Ditto the nurse, I would definitely be in touch with the hospital regarding her behaviour.

Sometimes, however nice you are, you just have to fight fire with fire. Hope things work out for you.

 

[buzz for boys]

i was talking to my best m8 ever yesterday and she said to me you can only be hurt if you allow them to hurt you !! Together we decided the best thing to do was to just smile at everyone as i dropped the kids off!!

you know inside my stomach churning and i was shaking all over as i approached the school gates but I just kept saying to myself you dont give a s@@t !! Over and over made a consioous effort to keep my head up and then walked straight the middle of group of women and wished them all morning!!
The look on their faces was priceless - and you know for the first time in months instead of getting back to my car fighting tears I was actually fighting the urge to laugh hysterically at em !!
I feel like I have finally made a breakthrough in getting them to leave me alone!!

I also know the sh@t has hit the fan at school with all memebers of staff involved as ive had a very strange message from a friend of the ringleader saying that she has not had any part in any of this and she is praying for cam - thats nice hope you dont expect me to reply !!

Thanks again for all the advice!! heres hoping i can keep it up

 

[darthtatty]

woohoo well done Louise

thats prob the best thing you could do, smile.
I do hope this is the start and things get better for you from now on.
I dont blame you for not replying to the message youve been sent.
hope the rest of the term goes well.xxx

 

[Muscateer]

Well done you for putting your nose in the air and walking straight through them. Who an earth would make up a story like yours about your own child?They can't be right in the head for suggesting such a thing. You really don't need people like that as friends.

Makes me so glad that I worked when my daughter was at school and never had to stand at the school gates.

Keep up the don't give a dam attitude.

 

[thelittlemermaid83]

You go girl!!!

 

[Nubbedy]

Well done you, you have probably really confused them now!!!

 

[Jets fan]

Way to go Louise, maybe now these stupid women will stop acting like sheep - blindly following a very sad lady, who badly needs help herself!!

Take care
Tina

 

[mumloveseeyore]

spoke to dh who is a nurse , he is appalled at the behaviour of her niece, she could very easily be struck off for breaching confidentiality!. i certainly think that the hospital should make some sort of reprimand at the very least. Still thinking good thoughts for cam. love GILL

 

[joolz1910]

Glad you feel better. They must have had a warning if they are already distancing themselves from the ringleader. Report that nurse!

 

[wils]

Just catching up - what a ridiculous situation and I'm so sorry you have to deal with these pathetic people as well as everything else

A big Whoooo HOOOOOOO for what you did today - good for you.


Love to you and Cam x

 

[Tinks1984]

Louise, I'm very proud of what you managed to do today Must have been awful, but it'll probably be the best thing you've done in ages. I'm so pleased that for once, when you returned to your car, you actually felt happier than normal, good for you hun

 

[Pinky166]

Well done Louise. You go girl!!!

Keep your chin up & do the same thing tomorrow.

 

[scottish mum]

Well done Louise, i bet that shocked them and now they are all going to be worried if they think the school are dealing with it.
Good luck for tomorrow and keep smiling, i'm sure it really annoys them

 

[Lisash]

How mean and spiteful! I'm a great believer in karma. People like them always get their come-uppance. It might take a while but they will. Keep your chin up and grin like an idiot whenever you see them they'll be petrified of what you are up to

 

[Mrs Doubtfire]

How awful for you to have to face this every day - I hope that you get this sorted soon

 

[kieras nana]

i am sat here & can't believe,what i have read!
i cannot comprehend,grown women,behaving in such a way.they are mothers for goodness sake,how can they not have compassion,for what you,cam & your family,are going through!
i really can't imagine,putting a friend,or even someone i knew,through something so,nasty & vindictive.what are they thinking!
please stay strong louise & even if,some of the mothers,see the error of their ways,after being spoken to,just be polite,but keep your distance,they do not deserve your friendship.you are better than that!
keep your head high tomorrow louise,as they should be hanging theirs in shame,
tracy

 

[les2425]

sometime when people do these things its just like being at school again.
sound like her children are the grown up and they should send the mother to school.

But most of all she the type of person who will cause her self trouble just give her more rope and she hang her self out to dry.