tarheelmjfan
Proud Redhead
- Joined
- May 10, 2001
I'm also not a hugger. I will/would willingly hug my Dad, DH, DS, my nephews & a BIL that is more like a second Dad. That's the only men I want to hug. I feel similarly about hugging women. I'm only interested in hugging close family members. Over the years, I've learned to accept a hug from others, by detaching myself from the situation long enough to not offend well meaning people. Most of us have learned to fake situations. This is a perfect time to use that knowledge. It may not be easy, but it's possible.
ETA: If he's a totally creepy person & not just trying to be friendly, I would avoid him.
ETA: If he's a totally creepy person & not just trying to be friendly, I would avoid him.
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