Suzanne, I made it as far as the Red Carpet Club in Chicago now! hopefully my flight will leave tonight, if no, no big deal.
I've seen a lot of people flipping out tonight, but I followed my own advice. I called United after my first flight landed, stayed pleasant with the reservations who went out of her way to help me and thanked me for not yelling at her (!), stood in the Red Carpet Club line for a boarding pass. The line was very long, and I was listening to the people ahead and behind me stressing. So I pulled out my cel phone, made a quick call, and helped the people behind me to alter their travel plans. They were quite impressed as they really didn't know what to do.
So now I have a very large box of chocolate in my carryon - they came back to the club to find me and give me a thank you gift
Staying calm really does work - I've definitely mellowed over the years, and it has helped me to get through these sitatuations
Hopefully tomorrow I will be posting from HOME!