Mine is *The River* by Garth Brooks. My DB died in 5/94 - this song had just come out - GB performed it on an awards show just before then - my brother told my cousin (they were watching the show together) that he *wanted that song at his funeral when he died* - when my brother accidentally drowned and my cousin told me he wanted that song at the funeral - I said NO - until I heard the rest of the story.
Also - GB *The Dance* gets me. It's the video, with MLK Jr, JFK, all the lost legends.