DD10 has been in the IEP program for 3 years and will be going to 6th grade next year. She started with both Language Art and Math, I requested and successfully moved her out of the resource class for Math in 5th grade, she has been getting Bs in the main class. We will have an IEP meeting soon, I am not sure what kind of help I can ask the school or the program. I hope someone on the board can help me because it seems that in every yearly meeting we just agreed to put her in a smaller class.
I am not sure whether I am being unreasonable. A week ago, her case worker contacted me and told me that as DD has been in the program for 3 years and she should go through the standardized test before continuing to stay in the program, but they felt that she can just skip the test. I told her I have no problem with DD10 staying in the program, but then I think we should have a meeting as I am looking for some ideas to help DD10. For example, I have been helping DD for her Math, I found out that she is forgetful, something I taught her a few times and only to find out she forgot again. She told to me that it is a common characteristic of students in the IEP. I told her it did not sound like a solution, she said they do not give solution, but only suggestions. I pointed out that it is not even a suggestion.
Note that I believe parents have the primary responsibility for the childrens education and I am not staying away from it. I review DDs Math, I subscribed to the same web site the teachers use, I read the teachers manual, I researched different ways to teach a single concept. I have homeschooled text books that I can give her extra exercises. In the last year, I spent thousands to send her to Sylvan and private tutor for Language Art. ( I know there are debates on whether Sylvan is useful, but in DDs case, I think it helps)
At the beginning of 5th grade, I realized that those kids in the IEP program (at least in DDs school) do not have a chance to leave the program, as I can see that the gap between the kids in IEP and the main program is getting bigger and bigger. I can pull DD out for Math because I have been working with her every day. For Language Art, except I can spend 3 or 4 times of what we are spending now, I just dont see how she can move up to grade level. Therefore, the question is what kind of help I can get from the school except to put her in a smaller class.
Thanks for the help.
I am not sure whether I am being unreasonable. A week ago, her case worker contacted me and told me that as DD has been in the program for 3 years and she should go through the standardized test before continuing to stay in the program, but they felt that she can just skip the test. I told her I have no problem with DD10 staying in the program, but then I think we should have a meeting as I am looking for some ideas to help DD10. For example, I have been helping DD for her Math, I found out that she is forgetful, something I taught her a few times and only to find out she forgot again. She told to me that it is a common characteristic of students in the IEP. I told her it did not sound like a solution, she said they do not give solution, but only suggestions. I pointed out that it is not even a suggestion.
Note that I believe parents have the primary responsibility for the childrens education and I am not staying away from it. I review DDs Math, I subscribed to the same web site the teachers use, I read the teachers manual, I researched different ways to teach a single concept. I have homeschooled text books that I can give her extra exercises. In the last year, I spent thousands to send her to Sylvan and private tutor for Language Art. ( I know there are debates on whether Sylvan is useful, but in DDs case, I think it helps)
At the beginning of 5th grade, I realized that those kids in the IEP program (at least in DDs school) do not have a chance to leave the program, as I can see that the gap between the kids in IEP and the main program is getting bigger and bigger. I can pull DD out for Math because I have been working with her every day. For Language Art, except I can spend 3 or 4 times of what we are spending now, I just dont see how she can move up to grade level. Therefore, the question is what kind of help I can get from the school except to put her in a smaller class.
Thanks for the help.

