What is your school's cutoff birthday for kindergarten?

It changed this year from October 31st to September 1st.

DD has a November birthday, so she was going to miss out regardless.
 
Apparently Kindergarten is not required in 35 states. I find that number surprisingly high.

I say that because here in California there is a big push to start kids in public pre-kindergarten programs at age 3.

https://www.ecs.org/kindergarten-policies/
 
I found this very interesting. Maybe it's because I used to teach in public schools, but it's interesting to see how different states do things. Thanks!
 

September 15. DD18 was born 9/30 so she started when she was nearly 6. DD16 was born 8/26 so she started kindergarten at 4. It worked out for both of them and I'm really glad they ended up just 2 years apart in school as they became involved in a lot of the same activities and friends. If the oldest had been born 2 weeks earlier and the youngest 2 weeks later, they would have been 4 years apart in school.
 
9/30 but almost everyone redshirts kids with summer birthdays here. Dd is starting high school this week and is still 13 but she was totally ready for kindergarten.

I was a November birthday and started kindergarten at 4 in Connecticut. I'm glad my parents sent me when they did.
 
9/30 but almost everyone redshirts kids with summer birthdays here. Dd is starting high school this week and is still 13 but she was totally ready for kindergarten.

I was a November birthday and started kindergarten at 4 in Connecticut. I'm glad my parents sent me when they did.

My daughter was 13 in high school too- perfectly normal here to be 4 and in kindergarten- our cut off is on or before Dec 1st- so all the kids born in sept, oct, nov and on dec 1st start at 4 years old. She is 17 and just started college- I could not imagine her being in high school at this age for another year- she was so ready to be out of there!
 
My daughter was 13 in high school too- perfectly normal here to be 4 and in kindergarten- our cut off is on or before Dec 1st- so all the kids born in sept, oct, nov and on dec 1st start at 4 years old. She is 17 and just started college- I could not imagine her being in high school at this age for another year- she was so ready to be out of there!
It's crazy here. Dd had a boy turn 7 in January in kindergarten. He was a very bright kid and the mom felt it gave him a big academic advantage.
 
It's crazy here. Dd had a boy turn 7 in January in kindergarten. He was a very bright kid and the mom felt it gave him a big academic advantage.

That is insane- they would be getting "were you left back?" asked of them all the time if they were that old! 7 years old is THIRD grade age for 1/4 of the kids! My daughter had an older kid in her kindergarten class for a few days- they moved him out of there and up into 1st grade where he belonged.
 
That is insane- they would be getting "were you left back?" asked of them all the time if they were that old! 7 years old is THIRD grade age for 1/4 of the kids! My daughter had an older kid in her kindergarten class for a few days- they moved him out of there and up into 1st grade where he belonged.
I hear you! It's all about gifted identification, getting into the right middle and high schools here. 19.5 in high school is ridiculous.
 
August 1st here, but I think it was July 1st back when I was in elementary school, because we had year round school and started in mid July.

Personally, I was held back a year, but for physical reasons. I had some pretty significant physical delays, but it was only physical, so not enough to be in Special Ed. full time, so my parents knew I'd be in the regular classroom the vast majority of the time. So they waited an extra year. I'm glad they did. As it was, since the date was so early, I was the oldest only by a month and a half or so. I had a friend who was born July 17th who was the same year I was. All throughout elementary school I was the oldest AND the smallest in all my classes, and was always last in anything physical. Made for a somewhat interesting dynamic at times. So I had an IEP for physical reasons, but was also in gifted education. And no, being identified for gifted ed is not one of the reasons I was held back. I was 19 when I graduated, but only by a few weeks.
 
That is insane- they would be getting "were you left back?" asked of them all the time if they were that old! 7 years old is THIRD grade age for 1/4 of the kids! My daughter had an older kid in her kindergarten class for a few days- they moved him out of there and up into 1st grade where he belonged.

I've worked in elementary schools for years, and I can't imagine a kindergartner asking a kid if they were left back, I don't think I've ever had a kindergartner or 1st grader in my classes even know what that means. They might be like wow, you're 7 already? Cool-I'm only 6! But that's as far as it would go.

I knew a boy who turned 8 in January of 1st grade. He went to K, turned 6 in January, went to first, turned 7, was held back due to learning issues and so was 8 in his second time in 1st. Sometimes children need to repeat a grade. Happily, I've never seen kids at my school make a big deal about it, or call other children out when it does happen.
 
I hear you! It's all about gifted identification, getting into the right middle and high schools here. 19.5 in high school is ridiculous.
One of my son's best friends will turn 19 in the fall of his senior year of high school. He went to school on time, missing the cutoff, so was one of the oldest kids in the class. Would have turned 18 a couple months after starting his senior year.
Has dyslexia, got left back in elementary school, and now is a year older than he would have been in high school. I'm not quite sure how that's ridiculous. He went to school when he was supposed to. He is dyslexic, and the school felt he needed to repeat a grade to get a handle on his learning disabilities and make sure he knew how to read before being sent to the next grade.
 
Interesting article I ran across the other day. Relevant to this discussion. Anyone have personal experience with this? Teachers or parents with older kids for their grade?


Oldest Kids In Class Do Better, Even Through College

http://www.npr.org/sections/thetwo-...-kids-in-class-do-better-even-through-college

Children who start school at an older age do better than their younger classmates and have better odds of attending college and graduating from an elite institution. That's according to a new study from the National Bureau of Economic Research.

Many parents already delay enrolling their children in school, believing they'll do better if they're a bit older. It's sort of "academic red-shirting," says one of the study's authors, David Figlio, an economist at Northwestern University, using a term that originated in college athletics and refers to recruits who are held out of games for a year.

The study focused on differences between Florida children born just before and after the Sept. 1 cutoff date for starting kindergarten. That means the youngest children in any class were born in August and the oldest in September of the previous year. Figlio and his co-authors found that, on average, demographically similar September-born children performed better than their younger August-born classmates, all through their academic careers.

Previous studies have also concluded that older children do better in school, but there were still questions about whether the advantage continued beyond a few years. This new research found that the advantage extends through college. In an interview with NPR, Figlio said that if you look at test scores, the achievement gap could be equivalent to about 40 points on the 1600-point SAT.

The age a child starts school could also affect college attendance and graduation rates. Among families in the middle socioeconomic group, the older, September-born kids were 2.6 percentage points more likely to attend college and 2.6 percentage points more likely to graduate from an elite university. On the downside, August-born children were 1 percentage point more likely to be incarcerated for juvenile crime. Figlio acknowledges these are not "massive differences," but he says they are "meaningful."

Study: Holding Kids Back A Grade Doesn't Necessarily Hold Them Back
Figlio said the study's most surprising finding was that the gap between August- and September-born children occurs at all socioeconomic levels and is not easily closed, even in high-income families. The Florida birth and education data allowed the researchers to compare the performance of August- and September-born children in the same families. Even in high-income families, says Figlio, there was a gap in achievement between children who started school at a young age and siblings who started when they were older.

Figlio says that surprised him because he thought high-income families would have the resources needed to close the gap between siblings.

There's no clear remedy to the problem, he says. But he believes educators and officials should look for solutions. Figlio says one possibility may be grouping same-age students in separate classes, rather than having classes where some children can be nearly a year younger than their oldest peers. He says that in the early primary years, the cognitive and social differences between children who are nearly a year apart can be very dramatic, and teaching for each group could be tailored to their development levels.
 
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One of my son's best friends will turn 19 in the fall of his senior year of high school. He went to school on time, missing the cutoff, so was one of the oldest kids in the class. Would have turned 18 a couple months after starting his senior year.
Has dyslexia, got left back in elementary school, and now is a year older than he would have been in high school. I'm not quite sure how that's ridiculous. He went to school when he was supposed to. He is dyslexic, and the school felt he needed to repeat a grade to get a handle on his learning disabilities and make sure he knew how to read before being sent to the next grade.
In the case I'm talking about it's totally ridiculous. In the case you are talking about it sounds like it's appropriate. I graduated college at 20 so I cannot imagine being 19.5 in high school or driving to high school as a freshman.
 
In the case I'm talking about it's totally ridiculous. In the case you are talking about it sounds like it's appropriate. I graduated college at 20 so I cannot imagine being 19.5 in high school or driving to high school as a freshman.
I misunderstood when you said that 19.5 in high school is ridiculous. It sounded like you meant no matter what the circumstances were.
And, thankfully, driving age here is 17, so even being an older student, there are really no freshmen driving around. lol
 
Dec 31st. My youngest was still 4 when she started as she has an end of October birthday.
 
There's no clear remedy to the problem, he says. But he believes educators and officials should look for solutions. Figlio says one possibility may be grouping same-age students in separate classes, rather than having classes where some children can be nearly a year younger than their oldest peers. He says that in the early primary years, the cognitive and social differences between children who are nearly a year apart can be very dramatic, and teaching for each group could be tailored to their development levels.

I had wondered about this when my son started K. In his school there are 5 classes for each grade so they could theoretically split them by birthdays but they don't. In his current 4th grade class, he just turned 9 last week and 5 of his classmates are turning 10 this month.

As for red shirting, lots of people do it here and people gave me funny looks when I said I sent my son on time. They thought I was crazy. My son has performed really well and is above grade level for math and reading. If I held him back, he would have probably been bored. Our g/t program is lacking.
 














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