It's not to say they never took us anywhere, but they never took us to the beach for vacation which we would have loved and begged to do, except for once when their best friends offered up a cheap rental through their family for both families. My parents hate the beach, but went because their friends invited them, not because we wanted it. Our vacations were to visit family in TX (we lived in MD) and we'd usually do something fun (like amusement park or camp) but not because it was our idea, but theirs. We went to the ice capades once, the circus once, hiking in the Shenandoah, museums, zoos, drive in movies etc, but never because it was what we wanted or asked for and what they hated, ever. We rarely ate out, but when we did it would be pizza or a family restaurant, but entirely their decision. My point was it wasn't common for parents to take kids places they hated in that timeframe. It was pretty much understood that whatever we did was for the entire family, not just the kids. Disney was never on the plate for us. Although, my parents went with their friends after we were grown up.