Believe me, I've asked her many time, even begged her to get out and spend some of that money, and she simply refuses to budge. She also feels that since she's been so lucky in life, she has an overwhelming desire to pass on a nice inheritance to my sister, myself and her grand-kids. We've told her to please enjoy herself, but it's something that she needs to do...don't ask me why. She was raised in an ultra conservative home, my grandparents (who obviously did very well for themselves and were far freer spenders than she is) taught her to never take anything for granted. She took that advice and dedicated herself to living a very frugal lifestyle. That said, she pays cash for everything she has, including her home and every car she buys (every 5 years, whether she needs it or not), and she'll occasionally dip into her trust fund when she has to, but outside of that, she's as tight as a guitar string and wears her frugality like a badge of honor.