The "Magic", for us, isn't necessarily a Disney-infused thing, as we find the magic in so many places throughout Orlando. Our "magic" is still spending time as a family, and LOVING it, even though our kiddo is no longer a little boy.
Its being excited and awed over new experiences and places unlike anything we have at home.
Its enjoying the heat and the sunshine and even the torrential rains, because there are palm trees swaying in the breeze in the midst of it all. Even Orlando's "cold" is warm to us.
Its swimming in the winter.
Its seeing our teenager excited about leaving his cell phone behind and just soaking up the moment.
Its all the smiles we have in the photographs lovingly captured during our travels.
Its being pampered and relaxed and spontaneous.....seizing the moments as they arrive, and not adhering to schedules.
The "magic" gets lost for us when we're overburdened by deadlines, micro-management of our time, alarm clocks, crowds, schedules, and super-planning. Our everyday lives are busy and hectic and planned so far in advance that knowing the same must occur on our vacation in order to have "fun" is rather discouraging.
For us, Disney has some great concepts and a child-like appeal, but having to worry about Fastpasses and ADR's, in particular, has zapped enough of the "magic" that we have found more our family's style of vacationing at their Orlando competitors. We don't want to have to decide six months ahead of time where and when we want to eat. We want to be spontaneous. We want to go with the flow.
The super-inflated pricing also kills the magic.
Ticket prices are one thing, but the resort prices are ridiculous in so many instances. I can see Disney resorts being offered at a premium, but at 500+% in cost to their comparable offsite counterparts? Same for Disney dining.....$50 for Chef Mickey's dinner?? Our family just can't justify paying that much for cafeteria-style food. The atmosphere is great, and the opportunity to meet the characters is awesome, but that cost just takes it out of the realm of reasonable (and definitely not in the "magical" category).
If I could pick one park that most clearly depicts our vacation style, its Discovery Cove. Its easy. Its relaxing. Its beautiful. Its all-inclusive. It includes 14 days admission to both SeaWorld and Aquatica (two other parks we adore). It includes unlimited food and beverages (including alcohol) for the day. We get the amazing opportunity to swim with dolphins. We get a souvenir photo to take with us. And its less than the price of a 3-day Disney ticket. And its the park that we will talk about for years after our vacation ends. That's the magic for us.
Edited to add....we are not anti-Disney. In fact, we are hoping against hope that the rumor is true and a
MNSSHP will be held on August 29th, so we can squeeze in a Disney visit during our next trip (otherwise, its a mostly Disney-free vacation....again). But this is something that can be enjoyed without Fastpasses, without an ADR, without massive crowds (we hope) and while staying in our beloved offsite location. We love the Disney experience when the other factors are not killing the "magic" for us.