I have a big dilema here, and could use a little help/advice. We are renting points for VWL from another member here (first staying at ASMo for 3 nights, and ending with AKL for 2 nights). We are scheduled to leave 1/31, with our DVC stay beginning 2/3. My MIL has been terminally ill, but quite honestly, we thought it would be "over" by now (we didn't expect she would make it through Thanksgiving, then Christmas, etc.), and this would be a good recovery for our family, and this was literally the only week we could go for probably a few years due to DH work schedule, my home business, and then the fact we are planning on adding to our family. Plus we thought we would get in before our youngest turns 3. Anyway, my MIL was admitted to Hospice on Sunday; we were supposed to leave a week from Thursday. So the question comes down to what (if anything) can we do with our DVC rental. I think from what I have gathered, I have up until 5 days prior to check in to cancel at ASMo, or lose 1 nights payment (even though I paid for the whole stay already). I thought I would check here before checking with the person I've rented from so as to not start any problem there since we are not sure yet. I also have non-rfundable airline tickets, but I think I can change for a fee and use them for a year. I also have Connections vouchers that will expire, an Illuminations cruise booked, Cindys' PS, etc. Don't get me wrong, I would do anything to keep my MIL... but I have worked really hard on this trip, and we have had a very rough year family/marriage wise, so it's just an extra kick while we're down to lose this trip. Our only other option would possibly to the first week of September (DS would turn 3 in the middle). I am correct that my only option would be to let the room sit empty and lose the $650 in points, or to basically "give" it away, like to my brother that lives in FL so that at least someone could use it. He is unemployed and definately not in a position to pay anything for it. Sorry this got so long, I am just very distraught! My DD is 5 and fully aware of everything that is going on, so that makes it even harder telling her we better not take any more loops off our countdown chain! Thanks for any words of advice! Angela