So sorry that you have to deal with all these headaches especially when you haven't fully recovered yet from the accident.
Hope everyone starts to feel better soon physically and mentally. Glad you all are getting some help.
So, so glad that your whole family got through the accident alive without really serious injuries. After reading about the accident, it was a miracle.
Desnik said:
Right now I really want to go on our trip in Nov. We all really need it. However there really is no way I can do the drive. DH says he can, because his fear of flying is much greater than his fear of the car! I just can't put myself through it, I know I will be on edge the whole time and be miserable. I am going to look into flying with the kids and DH can drive down. Hey, at least I won't have to worry about our luggage! DH can take all our stuff down for us!!
You should definitely go. But I understand about concerns over how to actually get there and back.
If I were you, while flying would be much more comfortable for me and the kids, I would be constantly worrying and stressing about DH making that long drive all by himself.
Maybe you could look into the Autotrain as a family. It would cut down on the drive and therefore more relaxing for you all.
If you don't need your car at all, someone else mentioned taking the train. Just take it all the way down and get car service to pick you up and drop you off at the train station.
If those options make your trip too expensive and you wind up stressing over finances especially with the added associated costs of the accident, I might look towards renting out that reservation and scheduling a later trip.
I would also take into account DD feelings about the upcoming trip. If she starts stressing about the trip, unless I could come up with an option (like the train) that would make her comfortable, I might seriously cancel the trip, rent out the reservation, use some of the proceeds to plan a short getaway closer to home and save WDW for later on when everyone is up to it.
If you can figure out a stressless way to get your family there and back, I can't think of a better place tahn WDW to recover and get refreshed and get away from the problems facing us at home.
Good luck with everything. Just want to let you know again how glad I am that everyone in your family was able to walk away from that accident.