I'm either going to get a Nook or a camcorder for my "big" gift from DH (who is tech-challenged, so he just takes me shopping to pick out a gift together).
Beyond that, there's just not much I want/need right now. I know a lot of women don't like getting home/kitchen things as gifts, but that's the rest of my list at the moment because those are the things I haven't gotten around to getting for myself.
I'd like a canning pot with a rack, because my mom & I have been sharing my grandmother's set and it would be convenient to always have my own here for when I do something silly like buy a bushel of tomatoes and then realize I have to drive down and pick up the canner before I can do anything with them! And there are a couple of serving pieces missing from my (antique) china that can be found through Replacements.com.
For those few relatives (especially my MIL) who insist on fun/frivolous/"selfish" suggestions, all I can think of is Barnes & Noble or Hobby Lobby gift cards.