Hmmmm....
Well, I think my "X" factor is best summed up as the "Dork" factor.'
That's right, I like them somewhat dorky - and proud of it!
I like a guy whose personality makes him so darn lovable you really embrace his looks, regardless of what that means - sticky-up hair, big ears, lanky frame...whatever.
I like a guy who laughs at me AND with me, and who can make fun of himself to make me feel better.
I like a guy who "gets" that it's not all about him - it's not all about me, either. I especially like a guy who gets that it's about furry little animals and funny little kids.
And I like a guy who sings me "My Girl", because it's one of my all-time favorite songs, and any guy who has so much as hummed it in my direction wins.
(And, in case anyone hasn't noticed, I've just basically described Clay Aiken, lol.)