AdamEfimoff
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compared to other group tours?
private tours?
an by yourself?
private tours?
an by yourself?
compared to other group tours?
private tours?
an by yourself?
This is a great topic, Adam. No worries!

Group travel is a great way to get comfortably used to a country you've never visited. And having assistance in case of emergency is so helpful. Especially if there's a language barrier.
Is ABD worth it? I've done 3, have 4&5 in July/August and 6&7 scheduled next year. I find I like their itineraries, hotels, etc. And find it's way less stressful to have a package arranged. Viator is good for booking excursions, but traveling between cities, etc., is a hassle. I like having transportation worked out. I like that in case of something cropping up and necessitating a change in the schedule, I don't have to worry about it. My vacation is a vacation. Not a chore. Lines are typically avoided, the guides give recommendations for shopping, food, etc. They know where the bathrooms are, give special treats, and you get to meet interesting people. The companies and local guides are top notch. It's all very worth it to me.
As for sanitation, and sanitized views of a country, that's the nature of tourism, isn't it? When I visit a place the first time, I want to see the main sights. Not back alley off the beaten path locales. My visit to Italy, for example: I want to see the historic places; why would I spend thousands traveling to Rome and skip places like the Vatican for more "authentic" everyday experiences?
Group travel is a great way to get comfortably used to a country you've never visited. And having assistance in case of emergency is so helpful. Especially if there's a language barrier.
I have always considered group travel to be like an on rails section of a game and sadly fake. Mum gave me an alternation either go in a group to South Africa or not go. I chose to not go. Never understood group travel. I enjoy planning am I an idiot ? I consider Cruises to be the same. I am trying really hard to understand such travel but am failing? any help
Now that I got that off my chest, please go ask mum if she'd like to adopt a daughter
Thank you 
One of the philosophies that I try to live by is not to judge what I think about something before I try it. I keep an open mind, try it and then decide whether it is for me or not. When we went to Scotland for the first time I vowed I would at least taste haggis despite how gross is sounded. Ground sheep's organs, mixed with oatmeal and cooked in the stomach of a sheep
I seriously thought, I'd taste it, gag, possibly throw up in my mouth a little and be done with it. Imagine my surprise when haggis suddenly shot up to getting on the list of my top 5 favorite foods!
After those two cruises which I thought were ok, I had figured cruises probably weren't for me. Then we became DVC members and thanks to the DIS I saw that it was common for people to "get to know each other" before a cruise on the cruise meet threads and get excited about their cruises, discuss what to expect and what to do while waiting for their sail date. So, we decided to go on a DVC member Disney cruise. It was awesome! On that cruise and some of the ones that followed we met people who have become lifelong friends. There is now a group of about 30 of us that keep in daily contact on a private FB page and we plan cruises to see each other, get together in WDW or DLR and every other year or so just meet up in somewhere the Midwest (central to every one) to hang out for a long weekend. A bunch of us are all going to Aulani in Hawaii next year too and I will be officiating the vow renewal for one couple who's marriage I just officiated last month. One of those friends had her house burn down to the ground and the whole group took up a collection so she could cover the insurance deductible. She lost her entire collection of the Outlander series signed by Diana Gabaldon. Those who have seen my Scotland ABD TR will understand the significance of that
I contacted the author, she told me what to do in order to replace the series and have her sign them all and then I shipped them to the place they were renting while the house was being re-built. I would have never met all of these people, who are way more than just "cruise buddies" had I not gone on that Disney cruise.... You may well be right, but you really won't know until you try. Though sometimes, I'm sure you will be very pleasantly surprised at not only the experience but the aftermath.