For our 25th we had a beach vow renewal here in NJ. We had my Aunt and Uncle who are Eucaristic ministers perform a Hawaiin ceremony. I had leis and a haku for me sent from Hawaii for dh and i to wear. i wore a long cream colored dress and my dh had beige pants and a beige shirt on. We had the renewal on the beach and my dd sang our wedding song "you made me love you" my aunt and uncle included our kids in the ceremony which they wrote themselves. then we all came back to our beach house, had a bbq on the deck. i had a tent as it was October. very relaxed, lots of fun!